I'm currently living with my boyfriend who constantly swears at me never lets me have any guy friends, recently hooked up with a 14 year old slut whilst we were on a break. Is constantly clinging onto me and never lets me have any space. Is rude to my friends and constantly ha dummy spits at me and just doesnt talk to me
2006-10-24 00:01:52 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you even asking this question, you already should have. You don't need some silly boy like that in your life. How are you supposed to be a strong successful woman if your being held back for somebody who obviously doesn't make you happy? If you have doubts, it's not probably not true love, so why would you stick around? A good guy for you would be one who never b i tch es at you, hangs out with you AND your friends, wouldn't even think about hooking up with another girl, lets you be independant and of course respects you!
2006-10-24 00:07:37 · answer #1 · answered by cjb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously need to start preparing yourself to leave. Get help from friends and family. This person has serious issues you cannot help him with and you are developing some issues of your own. Like low self-esteem. If its easy for us to see here its easier in person. If you don't show you want a change no one will help you. Prepare yourself and do something soon. You sound like a good person and should not be going through this.
2006-10-24 07:19:52 · answer #2 · answered by Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better than that! If the first 10 months is like this, imagine what 20 years with him will be like. Dump him.
2006-10-24 07:05:10 · answer #3 · answered by Qusan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the 14 part is scary cuz I'm 14 but listen talk to him tell him what you don't like and your going to leave if there cant be a change then tell him simply what is wrong if he still doesn't give you space and start bucking up leave him i promise you'll friend that right guy for you.
2006-10-24 07:09:49 · answer #4 · answered by number1lil_devil293 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How does he swear at you without talking. He is talented! However don't ever let him spit at you-this is very rude! He should not call you names either. As for being rude to your friends that is the last straw-kick him out!
2006-10-24 07:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELLO! Anybodu home?! Dump him! What are you waiting for? There are plenty of fish in the sea:) And you got time, it's not like you seem to be in a hurry to start a family or anything...
Leave him, you can do much better:)
2006-10-24 07:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask us? I don't think there is any reason that you should still be there. Dump his as$ and move on to bigger and better things. Try to pick someone over 14
2006-10-24 07:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wonder WHO the dummy is here... why are you in doubt? It's obvious that he's not the one for you!
In fact no woman would tolerate the dude...
so you're better off without him...Ten months is better than ten years honey....
2006-10-24 07:24:37 · answer #8 · answered by Carla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that stuff sounds like good reasons to dump the dude!
2006-10-24 07:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by Vicki B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spits at you? Girl you need help if you accept that. Immediate help.You need a lover, not a hater. Kick the cretin to the curb unless.... unless... unless he's willing to let you make him better... and if he is... he's worthless.
you need a man. not a boy.
2006-10-24 07:11:46 · answer #10 · answered by eauneua 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋