he has been working away for 2 months and i am going to pick him up today
2006-10-23 23:17:54 · 23 answers · asked by lucky 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes this happens..dont worry about it yet..once you see your boyfriend your old feelings should come back but if not and he just irritates you then it is time to break up.
2006-10-23 23:40:52 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Makes me wonder. I actually feel the same. I'm in a long distance relationship (for no less than 6 or 7 years) and I usually get bothered by him when we meet.
I'm not sure what it is. I know that he is not the love of my life and have no intentions to marry him at all, but I think that a part of my feelings and reactions stem from him "disturbing" my schedule, the way I live my life. We hardly see each other so we're both used to handle things the way we do, and all of the sudden someones there to judge me and tell me that I'm doing it wrong or whatever.
Still, you might want to move on. I probably should, too.
2006-10-23 23:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i recently had similar situation. realised after too long that i was trying to convince him i was the one. also realised after too long he wasn't ready / i'm not the one for him / he is not making me the best i can be (unlike other in the past). because i was so determined to try to make it work, i kept pushing and it went on too long, bringing more heartache. i wasn't looking forward to seeing him. that was when i realised. 5 weeks ago we broke up. it hurts, but i know it is right. it doesn't hurt as much as being disappointed or making him feel that way.
2006-10-24 11:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suggestion- Write down on a piece of paper every thought you have about him, and picking him up. Then look at what you have told yourself. The answer probably lies in your own thoughts about him or how you feel at this point about your relationship.
2006-10-23 23:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by lavender2dream4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this question made me sit up and notice,i was exactly like that with my ex girlfreind, due to work commitments i only seen her at weekends but i never missed her or looked forward to bein with her i realised that we had lost the spark and had very little or nothing in common.... i think this may be the same for u
2006-10-24 03:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by KIPPAX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's not the one... if hes been away for two months and you havent missed him and are not so chuffed in picking him up it speaks volumes!!!
Sugest you reavaluate how you feel for him today and if its worth carrying on the relationship!!!
Good Luck...
2006-10-23 23:29:04 · answer #6 · answered by Cat ( " , ) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me you might not feel the same about him anymore,sometimes feelings can change.Howvere,don't be too hasty.Wait and see how it goes for at least a few days,then you will have a better idea of how you feel and what you want.
2006-10-24 04:06:07 · answer #7 · answered by duracell18 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because the time apart from him has made you realise you dont really care about him at all?
Go pick him up and if you dont go all dough eyed at the sight of him maybe you'd be better off letting it go. xx (after you get your prezzies of course!)
2006-10-23 23:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok absence makes the heart grow fonder but not in your case. seems you have adjusted to life without him and have moved on so wait till he returns and see how you feel all your feelings may come back.
2006-10-23 23:22:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
U r used to independence during the perod.
2006-10-23 23:19:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋