How can you tell if a guy is interested and playing it cool or just not interested?

Question

And how do you get him to stop playing it cool!

Answer 1

I wish I knew how old you were since advice for teenagers would probably differ from advice for adults. But here goes. Life is short. Don't waste your time or thoughts on someone who wants to act "cool." "Cool" people let others know exactly where they stand. I suggest that you go about your business as if you aren't aware that he exists. If he truly is interested, he will let you know it. If he isn't.....well, then, you haven't lost anything. Good luck.

Answer 2

The texting drunk thing is okay, forget about it. It happens to ALL of us. I think the next time you hang out with him, just act like nothing strange happend. Flirt with him, compliment him in casual ways. Try to make him laugh and feel comfortable with you. Send him a nice "thinking of you mesage" once a day. If he response, he's still into you. Keep it simple, and as I tell my friends, be easy breasy with it, don't act too serious. That's no fun.

Answer 3

hm i would say get to know him abit more and time will tell. wne you come into a room, does he look up for you. and if he does, does he smile and come over and talk to you or barely acknowledge you and then look the other way. Does he maintain eye contact, does he start conversation with you doesn he look at other girls etc etc. also he he plays hard to get for too long then he's just messing you around and doesn't deserve your attention anyway

Answer 4

well if it was me i would have already told u that i like u and all that junk. if he is just playing cool well maybe He's just trying to keep himself safe and not get his heart broken again

Answer 5

play him at his own game and see his reaction and then you will know!

Answer 6

get it on with another lad in his face you see a tic head then you no

Answer 7

hear his heart beat