i thought i was over him but apparently i'm not.. i've met other guys, went out with my friends.. but all i can think of is him.. it's been 2 weeks we didnt talk and that's alot of distance for us.. he's accepted the fact we're not together anymore cause i've rejected him.. if i'll try i'll never know what it would have been with him,we were the perfect match.. but i'm affraid it's too late, any advice to make him come back? i broke up with him, he was starting to change.. but he was still inlove with me..it was just his ego.
i know it was a childish thing to do, but ever since the breakup he hasn't called or anything,maybe he doesnt care for me anymore..thats y i'm affraid of calling him, i dont want him to think i'm begging..the breakup was hard on him at the beginning, now i dont know anything exept that he passed by my house to take his sweater back..(but i wasnt at home) ..
does this mean he still wanted me and wanted to talk or just to get his sweater back cause he's moved on?
2006-10-23 22:28:50 · 11 answers · asked by Karine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i want the old him back more than anything.. and i won't let him go, i just dont wanna do this step (calling him,he'll have even more self esteem).. i really wanna know if he's been feeling the same as me these days..
2006-10-23 22:30:46 · update #1
have some guts whats it going to hurt if you ask him back. unless i was really mad or uncomfortable with my ex when we broke up I would still go get my stuff so I wouldn't think about that to much. hard to tell if he doesn't want you anymore. He might just be one of the few guys that respects your decisions and stayed away because you didn't want to see him, it doesn't necessarily mean he doesn't still want you.
2006-10-23 22:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by mnm4213 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two weeks is not a long time. I've been broken up nearly 8 weeks now and I'm still crying sometimes over the unhappiness.
Give it a while longer, see how you go. If you're still desparately unhappy by the new year, give him a call and ask him out as a friend for coffee or something... and if anything happens, that's great. If nothing happens, or you've both managed to move on, then that's also great. But don't weaken after just two weeks.
I know how you feel... hang in there!
Good luck!
Pauline
2006-10-23 22:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by Peblz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Karine. Like it or not, that's what dating is all about. To find out how you fit as a couple. Obviously there was something about him that you saw that made you want to break up with him and its better to do it now than after a couple of years of marriage. As for him stoping by to pick up his sweater, perhaps he did want to speak with you. But if he is serious about getting back with you he'll call or come by again.
In the meantime don't chase him. You need to get over him and move on too.
2006-10-23 22:46:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a nice situation, sorry to hear that. He either moved on or he has a lot of pride. Just know that there is nothing wrong with asking help of a friend, that is what friends are for.
So why not ask one of your mutual friends to contact him and find out how he feels about you.
I hope you can get back on track.
2006-10-23 22:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by Great Muslim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It becomes his decision now, the ball is in his court. My bf broke up with me like a week ago, and it was his decision. I would have loved to return... but he said the worst thing ever and I think that pride has taken over after I thought over it. You can be honest to him and see what happens, but you must respect his decision now.
2006-10-23 22:36:30 · answer #5 · answered by erotikos_stratiotis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All she needs is to get dumped some time and used. by the time a woman will become a woman the thoughts she's made in existence it in simple terms happens. Who knows if she thinks shes all that it may on no account ensue. undesirable upbringing identity say if shes that undesirable
2016-10-16 08:18:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By your picture, you look really young, so if he is the same age, his tastes are changing and he is growing up, just like you will be as well. The old him probably does not exist anymore, so let him get on with his life and you get on with yours as well.
2006-10-23 22:34:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think he has moved on..and i also think that u thought he will come after u when u break up..but unfortunately it is not the case..ur the one who is in trouble now..my advice to u is, move on..start going out with another guy..another guy who really love u..
2006-10-23 22:33:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to compromise with the realities of life. If he is not interested let him go. Your life will not become a hell without him. Forget hm and enjoy your life afresh. Thanks.
2006-10-23 23:18:21 · answer #9 · answered by Seagull 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
or you or him can make the first move.you have two chooses
2006-10-23 22:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by adela_hantaru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋