Badly want to discuss regaining custody of my 5 year old daughter. So many details and issues it is impossible to include all factors in this forum. I am the biological mother and had custody until earlier this year. My own mother (who I THINK means well but is a bit "different" in her beliefs) lied to me up until the night prior to going to court, saying she was on my side, then gave the court a list of "beliefs" she had , these consisted of things like claiming that friends of mine were actually "boyfriends" (UNTRUE) also things like the fact that I had a neighbor who was facing forgery charges (he was found innocent, but what does this have to to with my parenting skills or with me at all?) This whole thing is nuts. My little girl cries every time she has to go back to her dad, I have to peel her off of me when I take her back to him. I dont talk badly about him around her, she has stated that she doesnt like/love her dad since she was 2 or 3. I am going crazy. Any help?
2006-10-23 22:27:21 · 4 answers · asked by Lisa D 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Only thing I can sugest you do is keep fighting with the courts, no matter how long it takes.. Look into legal aid find yourself a good lawyer, do what ever it takes to regain custody of your little girl.. Sounds like your mother and ex isnt thinking about your daughters feelings at all.. Just make sure you keep telling your little girl you love her, tell her everyday..I hope one day you will get her back.. Also try to get some of your friends together and let the judge know that you are a good mother even if it's them just writing a letter...
2006-10-23 23:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Tracy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 08:18:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your moms false testimony would not be enough reasons for loosing custody of your own child. If this is so, sue all their asses all the way to Hong Kong. Don't leave any string on your way. Pull each and every one that dangles your way. If you are honest with yourself that you are a good parenta nd that your daughterloves you more than her daddy, then go on fight it out in court.
2006-10-26 08:33:46 · answer #3 · answered by Martinoluoch 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't really clear why you don't have custody of your daughter. Because your mom went to court and said you had "boyfriends" isn't enough to lose your kids.
Maybe you could give the real reason.
2006-10-24 04:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by Big Bear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋