Ok what happened is that i just started dating a guy...we were alone at my place...he was willing to kiss me..but i told him "not so soon" cz i was not comfortable that time cz just started dating n i wanted to get to know him more....but then ok he started kissing on my cheeks n all...i didnt stop him...but then he slowly started movin towards my lips...i stopped him...but he like started forcing a kiss on my lips!!!...n thankgod i somehow didnot let it happen....but before i realized he was like all over me...n lifting my top n all....i tried to stop him all the time...but he didnt...it was only when he lifted my top up n saw the nipple, did he move back....when he moved back...obviously i kinda had a tear in my eye....seeing that he said"sorry".
What is wrong with this guy?doesnt he now how to respect a girls feelings?
Should i leave him? he says sorry to me now?
Y did he force on me like that?
2006-10-23 22:24:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey guys i forgot to mention this earlie that..when i stopped the guy from kissing me...HE SLAPPED ME!!!
so now what d u think?
2006-10-23 22:25:38 · update #1
Don't give him another chance. If he hit you once he'll do it again. Besides not only did he hit you, he tried to force himself on you. Luckily for you, he stopped. Please don't give him another chance to do this to you again. You deserve better and you will find a guy who will respect you and one who will not put his hands on you ever.
2006-10-23 23:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by juicie813 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Around your age, guys hormones are going insane. He probably has a lot of urges, and desires he didn't have previously. Add on top of that, this guy really doesn't sound like a natural Casanova, he probably doesn't know how to approach girls, act around them, and how to show respect.
If this is how he acts all the time, not respecting you, slapping you, etc. I would definatly recommend breaking it off with him. At the very MINIMUM, I would recommend never to be alone with him again. Hang out with friends, family, or in public when you're with him. If he did this once already, and all he had to do was say "sorry" and everything's fixed, he's going to be a lot more likely to do it again, or to even do worse next time.
2006-10-23 22:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by sswoody00 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok....First off you should call the police that is sexual assault here is the definition
sexual assault
n.
Conduct of a sexual or indecent nature toward another person that is accompanied by actual or threatened physical force or that induces fear, shame, or mental suffering.
and stay the hell away from him,any person who cant control his sexual feelings/emotions and attempts to force himself is on the long road toward becoming a rapist.... and if you don't feel comfortable talking to the police talk to someone you trust and have them assist you in making the right choice. But remember its not your fault...
2006-10-23 22:38:21 · answer #3 · answered by Just wondering 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him girl.
Nice to see that there are some girls left with a bit of self respect.
Guys like this give the rest of us a bad name.
There are good guys out there, that will respect you.
If you give in to this guy, because he forced or pressured you, you will give him carte blache to to whatever the hell he likes.
Be strong, and get rid of him. Sorry just doesn't cut it.
2006-10-23 22:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him all I can sya now ... If he had not slapped you it was still OK coz male dont have control over emotions.. but if he really slapped you for that it means that he wont be there for long with you in future once he has what he wants from you ....
Regards
Sameer
http://sameer-shaikh.blogspot.com
2006-10-23 22:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lf you are not ready and you told him you are not ready, he should respect that. if he has no respect for you then he is no good. find a guy who respects you.
he slapped you for that then he's an @sshole leave him immediatly
2006-10-23 22:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI
Leave him if he slapped u other wise all thing are not bad ....
every thing is fine in love i think ..
Bye
Take care
2006-10-23 22:36:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the police and tell them that he tried to rape you and assaulted you. You do not need to be with someone who is going to abuse you.
2006-10-23 22:28:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calling your boyfriend at your place when you were alone gives signal of your readyness and he was making use of the oppertunity .
2006-10-23 22:33:42 · answer #9 · answered by thinkpose 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he regretted it too. so.. i think u should give him another chance? if the same thing happen again. leave him.
2006-10-23 22:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by bonkified_fl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋