My husband (33) has nocturnal emissions...?

Question

Is he quite normal or his does he have some sort of mental problem?

Personally I think he should have grown out of having wet dreams at his age...

To those who think he isn't getting enough sex....he's the one who only wants it once a week...I would do 24/7 if I could!

Answer 1

Sexual desire is but a small cause of wet dreams; they result mostly from the body's need to eliminate the sexual fluids that have accumulated since the last ejaculation. The content of wet dreams is not necessarily sexual, although it is apt to involve the penis in some way, similar to the way people often dream about urinating if they happen to have a full bladder at that moment. Only about a third of males have ever had frequent wet dreams. About as many had a small number of wet dreams (five or fewer) when they were beginning puberty. Most males have their first ejaculation by masturbating, and nearly all of them make it such a regular habit that their body never needs to induce a wet dream. The ones who have wet dreams nearly all stop having them once they learn to masturbate. Thus, most males who have wet dreams are age 12 to 14.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Nocturnal Emissions In Adults

Answer 4

Men who don't have enough ejaculations have wet dreams. The body needs to get rid of old sperm to make way for new sperm (as the older sperm gets the less fertile it becomes). My boyfriend has never had a wet dream, lol, I guess because we're quite healthy in that department, and if I don't fancy it then I encourage him to take care of his own needs!

I'm a bit worried about your attitude to sex by the way you assume he should have "grown out of it" and because he hasn't that there might be some sort of "mental problem". The human body is designed to enjoy sex so that there is the best possible chance of conception, and, unlike other species, we can reproduce all year round! This physiological response (which is purely biological) is most likely because he isn't taking care of his own needs if he's not having that much sex. The least you can do is allow him to masturbate if you're not going to participate yourself! He may be happy not to have sex, but he does need to release every once in a while or this will keep happening. Sex is part of a healthy, loving relationship too, so perhaps sorting out your own attitudes by seeing a psycho-sexual counsellor would help you both. Sex and normal physiological reactions aren't mental problems!

Answer 5

Now I am no expert but I did psi in university.

the nocturnal emission's normal some people do go with them there in tire life he has erotic dreams and there just a response to them obviously.

the bigger question is you once a week matter you may want to go to an adult only store get some candles lingerie spice up you love life a little.

find out what turns your man on and use it against him if he married you he must love you but some guys are not machines and need a little more coaxing be the fantasy for him.

I don't know your man but if he is a passive guy ma be you should be more aggressive with him slip in the shower with him, ravage him some night in bed.

if hes having these wet dreams allot then he drive is here ma be you just need to take control of the wheel for a little while until he hits his cruse control?

Answer 6

RE:
My husband (33) has nocturnal emissions...?
Is he quite normal or his does he have some sort of mental problem?

Personally I think he should have grown out of having wet dreams at his age...

Answer 7

I think we should first ask what a "sin" is. To my understanding a sin is to knowingly and willingly go against Gods will. Since we usually cant control what we dream nocturnal emissions are involuntary. So we are not willingly or knowingly sinning. So then I would say nocturnal emissions are not a sin.

Answer 8

I would say two things.

1. Men generally have wet dreams when they are not getting enough sex, either through mutual lovemaking or masturbation.

2. If you think wet dreams are a symptom of 'mental problems', this would seem to explain the first part of 1. above.

Answer 9

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Answer 10

Sounds like he's not getting enough. That's where you come in.