what is the most important for you....your family or your love? why?

Answer 1

The love of a family is something to cherish for a lifetime. You can replace your friends, but you can never replace your family.

Answer 2

It depends on the family and the love. If you are married to your love and he is the father of your children, and a good husband and father, then your love is the most important. He is top priority because the two of you are partners in caring for each other and your family. Your children are to be brought up and let go. Your love will still be there and if you haven't taken care of each other, what will you do when the kids are gone? On the other hand, if your love is abusive or neglectful of you or the kids, you need to leave him and take care of the kids. Also, if your kids are from a previous relationship, they take the top spot. You don't want to send them the message that whatever guy happens to be around is more important than they are. Good Luck!

Answer 3

My family is the most important to me. You shouldn't ever have to choose your family over your love. If you are put in a position to have to choose between the two then I would have to seriously look at my relationship and see if it was a healthy one. Alot of times if you are in an unhealthy relationship your mate will try to separate you from your family so they can have sole control over you. Think your relationship over if this is happening to you. It could be the start of an abusive relationship.

Answer 4

That depends on the Love. Love should include both of your family's. That way they will all be maintained as loving relationships.

I once heard a speaker talk about love as being like a circle. The more people you love come into the circle and your circle gets bigger. Love is not a finite resource, the more you love the more you have.

Answer 5

Interesting question. It can depend on your age and stage in life. I am a 54 year old widow. My two sons are grown and will always be there for me. I have met a fine man and plan a life with him. My home will be wherever he is. When my children were smaller, their needs would have been more important; but, not to the extent that I would choose them over someone (assuming he's a good man) who loved me and my children.

Answer 6

That's like the question of if your mother and your wife were both drowing and you could only save one of them - which one would you save. My answer was always the same - both of them. When told that wasn't possible I always say anything is possible if you want it bad enough and try hard enough. I love my husband. I love my family. I love my children. And there is room enough in my heart to love them all. Maybe each in a different way - but all of them are important to me. So - the answer is....

D. All of the above.

Answer 7

My husband is more important to me. We've made a vow and a commitment together, a covenent with God to uphold our marriage, and that vow is more important. Though my family is very important as well, if it came down to choosing between them, I'd choose my husband.

Answer 8

for me they are both in the same. I married my true love, and he is a part of me and i consider him family as my family considers him family as well. I am a lucky woman.

Answer 9

for me i would say my love. because most of my family has screwed me over in one way or another. but as far as picking my grandmother (dads side) and my parents over your love i would have to say family, because they knew you from the time you were born and know how you deal with things. plus they were always in your life and are still their for you when you need them.

Answer 10

My love is my family.