I would like to marry him, he also. but his parents dont agree for this maariage. Without parents agreement he is not ready to marry me. I realy wanna marry him and i cant even think of marrying anybody else. what do i do ? am in a big tension. pls. help me.
2006-10-23 19:37:21 · 9 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
am 24 and a divorce, my 1st marrigae was oly for a months time and that guy had some other affair and he marrid to me becoz of his parents pressure. after all this i decided to move on in my life and found my love. my b.frind knows about the entire story and we are going around for 1 year. fially he proposed me for marrigae and when he spoke with his parents about this they are not agreeing for this marriage. Withour parents permission he will not marry me. but i cant live without him and i love him so much. this is the 1st time am loving sombody so deeply and wanna spend my life with him. but what to do. my parents are looking for some other proposal for me. what do i do ?
2006-10-23 22:22:36 · update #1
Think of it this way...Do you want to marry a man that needs his parent's permission before he marries you. Of course not. A grown man does not need anybody's blessing to make this decision. Once you are married, you must make your immediate family your primary concern. Your immediate family includes the groom, the bride and whatever children you may someday decide to have. Whether or not either set of parents agree is just the icing on the cake. If he is mature enough to ask you to marry him, he should be mature enough to agree to marry you regardless of his parent's opinion about the marriage. If he can't commit to you, regardless of his parent's opinion, move on. You will one day find a mature loving man that can commit to you and make you his number one priority.
2006-10-23 20:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending why his parents dont agree and how old you guys are.
A parents blessing is very important. You need to think is that something that you can change their minds about if not than move on.
2006-10-23 20:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by RENO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?? If you love each other and you know that you'll be together forever, why rush. Marriage is just a piece of paper!! Wait until you are a bit older, and hopefully his parents will know how serious you two are and have to give their blessing.
2006-10-23 19:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Suki 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you really love him marriage isnt important. wait for him. If you are 17 or 18 or 19, wait till you are 23 or 24 to discuss it, go to school. My fiance and i are getting married in 7 months, we waited 9 years. She was worth waiting for, are you? is he?
2006-10-23 19:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by zorro1701e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHat the Frick is incorrect with you? Who might ever marry their Uncle! it is ill, it quite is not perfect and your toddlers will finally end up with webbed feet, greenback teeth and probabily a tail with a 0.33 arm! Are you some purple neck hillbilly trailer park individual? i do no longer understand - are there NO different adult males around the place you reside? No different possibilities in any respect? What approximately your brother, or your dad? are not they accessible? ill, ill individual.
2016-10-16 08:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im so happy for you that you found your true love but sweety as you get older you are bound to meet alot more men and fall for that guy and want to marry him etc. and vise versa.his parents must have a good reason for saying what they said and you need to respect that cos after all you marry him you marry his family.
2006-10-23 19:47:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we need more info. How old are the 2 of you. Have you finished school? Do you have jobs? What is the parents reason?
2006-10-23 19:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by winkcat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not educated and independent ???.... you are saying only your point of you, what is the real reason to be against, you should know. How to help you?
2006-10-23 19:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its more important that you marry the guy you love. give it some time but don't give up on it.
2006-10-23 20:09:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋