Ladies I want to get my ex back. We broke up cause of a long distance relationship. She says she has a new boyfriend. I told her to give me till December to get myself straight so I can support us but she told me she gave me 7 months already. We just graduated at the end of 05 and jobs for my major are scarce. I tried other girls but they dont make me feel the way she makes me feel. We havent talked since labor day or seen each other in 4 months. When I try to talk to her about the relationship she gets upset. I dont mean to be a whip little puppy but thats who I want to spend the rest of my life with. She knows it to cause I already got down on one knee. I cant sleep without dreaming about her I miss her.
2006-10-23 19:32:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like you're in love..too bad she sounds like she is not. If she were she'd have stuck by you and supported you through your hard time. You deserve better and there is better out there. My advice to you is to focus on your career and eventully the right woman will come along. More than likely your ex will realize what she has missed out on and want to come back. Hopefully you will be strong enough by that time to reject her like she rejected you.
2006-10-23 20:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by sweettee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you do get your life straight then go talk with her she probably thinks you can not do it or it is not going to happen and she does not want to waiste her life. You will never feel the same thing with a anther person but you will find love again. I found it after i broke up with my bf after 3 years i thought i could not live with out him. But i found a better person and I love him to death. It will work out for you. You even might find someone better for you.
Good luck
2006-10-23 19:36:12 · answer #2 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God this kind of situation hurts. I have been there and done that. How long will you wait? How long will you dream?
She didn't give you a specific time to wait, nor did she give you a chance to make it better. I know how you are feeling guy..but best move on.
2006-10-23 19:46:28 · answer #3 · answered by e_piphany214 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well time will defiantly be the healer here, I think you need to work out the little details before you can think about the big picture..but thats a sweet story, I went through the same thing awhile back, i think i have finally given up...and that's defiantly the worst feeling...just unreachable.
2006-10-23 19:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on and try put her out of your mind. If she has so little interest in you that she already has another boyfriend, then you should get anther girl.
2006-10-23 19:36:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems she is over ur relationship,but u let the problrm drag for long,4monthes not talking to each other is too long,if u really want her in ur life forever,u have to see her face to face and aske her for marriage!u did not say what was her reaction when u proposed,but u should have a clear plan for ur future together!good luck!
2006-10-23 19:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by ghada a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show her this question you have written .... and let her know that you went to the extreme to ask people you don't even know how to get her back.
I think you are sweet ... but really how much longer can you wait for someone who seems have forgotten about you!
2006-10-23 22:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by Daisie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep trying i guess. but if it doenst work out then just move on. you will find somebody eventually
2006-10-23 19:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Beca <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! She doesn't want you anymore. She has another man.
2006-10-23 19:41:13 · answer #9 · answered by cutiepieaww 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her all this. see how she responds. it might actually really be over and you gotta move on ... yesterday i found out my bf was cheatin on me ......... it happens ....... maybe you should wait for a wile and shell come around...?
2006-10-23 19:37:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋