oh my god, this guy I've been talking to for a while. while talking to hin, he like getting himself in another relationship and right now he realized I liked him and he doesn't know who to choose. either its her or me, I feel soo frustrated right now! I'm almost crying and sooo sad about it cuz he still calls me and he asks do u still like me? are u dissappointed in me? do u hate me? and asks what I'm going to be doing during the chrismas holiday if I can come see him. I'm sooo confused cuz abt three p'ple have tried to get together with me since he restricted our talking and I'm still disturbed by what he says. do u think he is serious?
please tell me! I'm sooo sick and tired of thinking to myslef
2006-10-23 17:40:48 · 13 answers · asked by formboj 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
worry about yourself... don't ever restrict yourself from something good bc your waiting on someone... if you 2 are meant to be together you will, but if something appealing is right in front of your face and you think it would be a good thing. go for it, he is doing this 2 you because he knows your going to sit around and wait.. which you shouldnt go out do you have fun, if you are interested in some1 who wants you... go for it.
2006-10-23 17:45:00 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the guy has not left his girlfriend by now than clearly he is just playing. Why stop time for this guy? There are other guys that appreciate you more. You should go out with them. Move on is the best thing for you. You sound like this situation is getting you down, and that is not healthy for you.
2006-10-23 17:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by biochick11220 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restricted your talking??? I'm taking this to mean he's not approving you talking to other guys right? Well sounds like a bit of a control freak who doesn't know what he wants. Ditch him and cut your losses. He sounds a bit too high maintenance or a game player. Life goes on babe
2006-10-23 17:44:45 · answer #3 · answered by exaluva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Darlin it sounds like he wants his cake and eat it too. As much as you like or love this guy you gotta remembr to love yourself first. Getting involved into a relationship that;s messed up from the begining is NOT showing yourself love. Just a boat load of pain . Good Luck
2006-10-23 17:48:32 · answer #4 · answered by Peace of Mind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, don't get caught on his game. If he's that serious he wouldn't be confused.. Stop worrying and don't put your life on hold for him. There are a lot of respectable guys out there give them a chance and let the battle begin. You go girl!!!
2006-10-23 18:09:04 · answer #5 · answered by lavender 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing i can tell you to do is stop worrying. if he is getting himself into a relationship with someone other than you, then you need to explain to him that unless he wants to be in a relationship with you then you aren't going to "wait by the phone" if you will for him to come to you. you are a human being and have needs which you want fullfilled. so i say stop worrying about him and find someone who wants to be with you not with someone else and strining you along
2006-10-23 17:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by rdoggg19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this to you but if he really cared about you, he wouldn't make you wait so long and make you so sad. I think you should move on because someone that makes you wait like that doesn't have your best interest at heart. Sorry!
2006-10-23 17:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by Grace Q. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
has he been friend with you more than her? if so, it's deffinatly you, if not, you might not have as good of a chance.
and you should go see him. even if you know him already at top rate, talk to him and work this out. he just might like you better.
2006-10-23 17:44:41 · answer #8 · answered by Tim M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in the exact same situation. as much as you like to believe he'll chose you, it probably won't happen. they make it sound pretty convincing though. i didn't happen for me and i ended up very hurt. i think try to move on before it's too late.
2006-10-23 17:46:11 · answer #9 · answered by gelibeli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look that guy doesn't really knows whats he wants his still a little boy if he was a man he would say i want u or i want her its not far for u or the other girl to wait for him to say witch one he want
2006-10-23 17:44:43 · answer #10 · answered by im that guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋