well i met this girl about a year ago, n we got real close rather quickly. but it was never beyond a regular friendship, although i did have a rather small crush on her, but that went away. but quite recently, those feelings came back, and a lot stronger. now this is driving me crazy, cuz 1 side of me wants to let her kno how i feel, but the the other side doesnt want 2 deal with a possible shot down. i kno i may sound like a wuss ir a wimp but i don't care, cuz i really value my friendships and hate complications. so suggestions are welcome (nothing negitive plz, i hate ignorance)
2006-10-23 16:29:36 · 9 answers · asked by neo_zer0 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her if she wants to hang out at your place. Buy her dinner. Hang out. Perhaps touch her hair if you are watching tv together. See if she responds positively. If so...bingo. If she pulls away...stop right there cuz you'll lose her friendship if you push it.
2006-10-23 16:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by IMHO 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just kiss her pick the perfect momment and then kiss her. dont be a punk whats the worst that can happen ( actually the worst that can happen is you do nothing and she finds someone else and you get to hear about it). so you dont have to say anything if you are bad with words just grab hand and give her a romantic kiss if she wants you trust me you will find out very quickly from her reaction. and if she didnt before she might after you kiss her. once you start talking about the kiss a bunch of feeling will come out and the sentences will form themselves and you wont have to worry about sounding stupid or being rejected after that point because you will already have your answer.
good luck
2006-10-23 16:35:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she wants 2 be more than friends cuz u have feelings for her. If she already called u her best friend or like her brother... GOOD LUCK! Then u must be a nice guy 2 and 4 some reason girls hate nice guys.
2006-10-23 16:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by telumdedeus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should test the water first by asking her out on a "date" (but don't use that word) just the two of you. Do a lot of gazing into her eyes, sweet talking etc and pay for the date and you will soon get the point if she likes you or not. If you do think she likes you just ask her out and make sure that you give her the option to also stay friends.
2006-10-23 16:33:50 · answer #4 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isn't loopy, he's possibly merely perplexed. He of course isnt attracted to you, yet whilst hes asked this woman out and shes rejected him, he's possibly merely asserting he doesnt prefer to have a female chum to dodge being made relaxing of.
2016-11-25 01:27:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say take a chance at it. Think of all the woulda, coulda, shoulda now. She just might be waiting for you to make that move.
2006-10-23 16:34:52 · answer #6 · answered by niellybell05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be haunted by "What could have been" go for it, if you get shot down you still have her as a friend
2006-10-23 16:37:22 · answer #7 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO FOR IT!!!!! " It's better to love and loose it than to never love at all"
2006-10-23 16:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you feal
2006-10-23 16:32:55 · answer #9 · answered by paula b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋