When I say I hurt her badly, I mean that I screwed up and cheated on her after she had come to visit and we had an arguement. I can't stop thinking about her and I just don't know if I can ever get her back. We had such magical things happen when together. I don't know what to do, I have sent her long letters, and flowers. Nothing is working.
2006-10-23 16:27:28 · 10 answers · asked by Ben C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after a man cheats it is very hard for a woman to gain their trust again. if like you said what you had was magical, then why did you screw it up? i know, i am not judging, but it is going to be hard for her to take you back. you have to go out of your way to get her to trust you again.
2006-10-23 16:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sort of going through the same thing right now. Ive had lots of talks with my friends. and they all say. that the best thing (for now) is give her some space. Because once she made the decision of moving on. there's nothing you can do to stop her, her feelings has changed and when it comes to love, it's hard to bring it back. But if she finds out later that you are the person she loves and learns to trust you again, then maybe it will work out. but for now, the best thing for you to do is forget about her. trying to win her back, writing letters, crying, will only make it harder on you to move on. there is this saying "if you love something, let it go. It comes back to you if it's yours. If it doesnt it never was"
2006-10-23 23:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by sparksXT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, Ben she needs time. But keep letting her know that u still love her. After the pain subsided, or u think it has been long enough, pay her a visit and try sweeping her off her feet again, and keep letting her know who sorry u were for hurting her so bad.
2006-10-23 23:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't ...trust is very hard to re-build after you hurt someone. Move on...and learn from ur experience .....and remember that you MUST be honest and respect each and every person you choose to have a relationship with. Take care! :>)
2006-10-23 23:32:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is cheating...i dont blame her for being hurt and leaving you. She went far to be with you, and you cheated on her..thats harsh. if she doesnt respond leave it alone. Let her come to you when she wants to persue something more...what you are doing right now is obviously not working...so let it go..
2006-10-23 23:31:02 · answer #5 · answered by amays068 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are men so stupid about women you comitted the worst sin.why couldn't you keep your pants on and just go for a walk. if she feels likeshe did before you did it give her time,but buddy you might have lost her forever was it worth the piece you got? probably not.
2006-10-23 23:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
magically she may need time. to screw up is one thing but to cheat is another. she needs to be reminded of how much u love her.. surprise her one weekend.. go see her and try to talk to her.
2006-10-23 23:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to earn her trust. And by the way that guy that first answered is rude I am Canadian.
2006-10-23 23:31:02 · answer #8 · answered by Steph1490 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Visit her home, and explain how much do you love her.
2006-10-23 23:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by denny.wang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her she's canadian. Who cares.
2006-10-23 23:29:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋