well i know that a lot tof people think that bieng fat is not good, why? people are so judgemental
2006-10-23 16:22:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The basis of beauty is being happy and healthy. Another major component is that you look like you "fit in" when you're with a group.
Obviously there are lots of "fat" people who are happy and healthy. They also work with their appearance so that they are as presentable as possible. Those people generally are able to find dates, get married, and live a happy life.
However, obesity is not at all healthy. Many people who are obese don't seem to be all that happy -- whether their condition is a result of some emotional difficulty, or whether the emotional problems are because of the obesity is tough to say.
And, quite frankly, many get overweight as a general neglect of their appearance.
The sad thing is where some people think a woman has to be a size 2, and a guy has to look like a greek god, to be attractive. That is simply not true.
2006-10-23 16:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by geek49203 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In response to the previous responses...I am fat, and I am not sad or out of control emotionally. I am very happy with who I am. Would I like to weigh a little less, sure I would. But, I am not going to focus every ounce of my energy on losing weight to fit some kind of mold our twisted society thinks I need to fit. If someone doesn't like me because I'm fat, then I don't want that person in my life.
2006-10-23 23:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by cowgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they feel that way because of health reason for large women, not realizing a lot people dont choose to be large .could be bad leggs, are medication ,are a sickness as well as over eating there are a lot reason why ?a person is over weight they are jugemental but the fact is there are a lot over weight people, who said skinny was the thing. you can be skinny and not be healthy feel as far as being sad because you fat all fat people are not sad a selective few sorry. see its the media and the society that say u have to be skinny please that sucks
2006-10-23 23:37:23 · answer #3 · answered by annjilena 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being fat is not healthy in many ways. putting aside thyroid problems and claims of just being "big boned," often people are fat b/c they are out of control emotionally (the same can be said for an anorexic, their problems just manifested in the opposite direction). i always feel sad for a fat person b/c i know they are not happy about something and clearly don't know how to fix the problem.
2006-10-23 23:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by ca belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not good for your health or self image just in case you haven't figured that one out. Think of all the more distance the heart has to pump blood. No wonder over weight people have trouble with blood pressure more often.
2006-10-23 23:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because society prefers the skinny girls. Media über alles and all that. You'd never see a girl weighing over 125 pounds in Vogue. Don't ask me why, but that's just the way it is.
2006-10-23 23:24:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fat is simply considered ugly in todays society..
2006-10-23 23:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well people today, their version of beauty is really skinny girls. so if a person is chubby they look down on them which is very bad.
2006-10-23 23:35:22 · answer #8 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you car what people think you should just be yourself not everyone is so condemning or judgmental
2006-10-23 23:27:44 · answer #9 · answered by mpl_leafs4evr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋