I'm having a problem getting boys to like me as more than just a friend. I'm an outgoing, nice personand I'm really friendly, especially to people I've just met. ok, i'm not trying to sound conceited or vain but I'm attractive. I'm 16 and an athlete and i'm training to do some modeling in the future.
For some reason unknown to me, I can't get a boyfriend. Boys say im hot and would be great to hookup and stuff but they wont date me. i dont understand. I'm not they kind of girl who hooks up with every guys she meets. Someone help me understand what's wrong with me, please.
2006-10-23 16:12:55 · 10 answers · asked by Kaykay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh just give it time.. I believe you will find alot of guys in time to come that will like you for yourself. I don't know how young you are but, just be friendly with the guys and the girls and trust me you will do fine in the dating category and then one day you will find the man of your dreams when you least expect it will happen. You will have alot of time for alot of dates just be picky and date guys who treat you nice and are respectful of you.
2006-10-23 16:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all i am the same age and ppl say the same stuff about me and yes i am attractive too i mean i am cheerleader captain and yady yady but since i share trust with guys they only think of me as a friend or there sister i think its just the reason because they would go otuw ith me but rhere afraid that if i go out with one of them then when if we do brake up this great friendship wont last ...soo i am tryin to give you enough advice by sayin be yourself and if youlike a certain guy then make shuuuree that you give him a signal lettin him kno wthat u like him maybe more than a friend i wish you the most luck ever and hope this all works out loves<3333
2006-10-23 16:17:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder - feel free to send your picture to the address below. (That will answer the attractive issue.) Supposing you are attractive, then try finding a guy that you connect with (it could be similiar interests, looks, whatever makes you feel that he's the one).
If they only want to be "friends", it is possible that they are currently in a relationship. Keep being there for him and when he's "available", make your move and let him know how you feel.
2006-10-23 16:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just haven't found the right guy. Keep being yourself and stop worrying about it. As long as you keep worrying about it, you won't find the right guy. Stop doing any random hook ups and wait for the guy who wants you for who you are, not because you are hot. Let them drool, but save it for the guy who deserves you!
2006-10-23 16:15:30 · answer #4 · answered by Christina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys at any age think that hot gals are taken, can't be approached or they are snobby. they lose out alot by not just giving it a try. some come off as if they are to good or not wanting and don't realize they are doing it.
2006-10-23 16:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think nothing is wrong. Some guys are intimidated with good looks. Maybe you should try talking to guys instead of waiting for someome to holla at you.
2006-10-23 16:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by heaven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with you persay,your age is the culpred,
it signals the jail sign in most males, your Under age? or your
exspressing to much snobish exspressions,and that turns off most men,boys.some day you will find the right guy,enjoy your time while you have it,your young and Im sure beautiful,kids today aren't lookng for looks they're looking for one thing and one thing only,just so they can fit in with thw jocks.
2006-10-23 16:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by beneryberlecco 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
keep going till you meet the right guy,don't rush or else you will end up being played over and over by the wrong guys.
2006-10-23 16:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by Robots 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all girls don't get dates. the best thing is dont change who you are and one day trust me mister right will come in your life and then you will be happy his there
2006-10-23 16:16:44 · answer #9 · answered by alexis j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about finding a boyfriend. keep ur self occupied and when u least expected it your future boyfriend will find you.
2006-10-23 16:20:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋