i like him and i was interesting in know him. so after a few confersation, i asked him to see a movie with and he agree and then i didn't hear from him and i felt like a fool so i cancel the movie b/c it seem that he wouldn't come. i did wat i did b/c he seem to like me, he wouldn't stop sharing at me and talk to me. he say he is not looking for a relationship but the way he look at me and talk to me made me want him more. he say he perfer a girl to show interest so i let him know that i like him.&he say he's not lookin for relationship, he want to be friend. he's not being a friend.
he won't call and say hello. i decided to stay away, keep sharing & say hi when he sees me. i said i like something he had on and he been wearing it at work alot & it drive me crazy b/c he nos i like. he even flirt wit me. he is a nice guy, i feel like fool now b/c i call and he didn't call back, i mean why guys why u do that. take wat u want. why u do this it hurting feelings
2006-10-23 16:10:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like he wants a relationship, but at the same time he is scared. It maybe that he likes and wants a relationship and have been hurt in the past, so he backs off when the prospects of a new relationship comes up. Just try being friends for now, and flirt with him some, but don't be to bold, who knows he just might come around.
2006-10-23 16:16:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's the hormones and the ego, sweetie. I know it hurts but just try to stay on friendly terms. He probably "knows" you're really infatuated and that's why he's not calling since he doesn't want any serious relationship. First of all, if he agreed to go to a movie and then didn't show up, I would have been a little upset and I would have let him know it, too. Did you? Don't let him walk all over you; which is what it sounds like he's doing. As hard as it is, act like it doesn't bother you and just stay on friendly terms.
2006-10-23 23:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may like you, but he maybe unavailable at this time. If I were you, I would just be his friend for now. If he flirts, flirt back, but try not to ask him out anymore. When he is ready, he will ask you out. If you keep going after him, it may scare him off and make you seem desperate. Let him do the chasing, but be approachable and nice and friendly but that's it for your end. Sometimes being busy with other activities yourself will show him that you are not waiting for him. Guys sometimes like a challenge. But do remember to still be nice when he does flirt with you.
2006-10-23 23:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by sizzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn from this experience. But don't become a hard and cold person. Continue to be a trusting and open person and when the right guy comes along he won't take advantage of you, instead he will want to protect and Cherish you.
2006-10-23 23:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by Marie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is very insensitve to your feelings, and playing games. Maybe if you turn the tables on him a little he might realize that you were serious.good luck.
2006-10-24 00:49:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say honestly just give him space...guys like to do the chasing so just try not to think about him and im sure it'll be fine...if you put too much pressure on him he'll run further and faster away from you so just try to forget about him and meet more people:)
2006-10-23 23:15:44 · answer #6 · answered by misseeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to get off him dear, it seems that he just enjoy flirting with you and felt great that some girl is into him. but this type of guys wont play really much attention to u, so try to get off him.
2006-10-23 23:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by hiro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you give you heart away so easily,Why do you chase some one who is obviously not the least bit interested in you, if you chase men they know you are really desperate
2006-10-23 23:17:17 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in a wolrd of yer onw?
2006-10-23 23:18:06 · answer #9 · answered by kitkatish1962 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him he's looking for something Im sure you don't want to give him yet.
2006-10-23 23:14:31 · answer #10 · answered by beneryberlecco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋