Could someone answer my question truthfully. I've had sex 3 times in my whole life and with the same person. I think the problem could be that it's not enough four play for me. He just go striaight for it. He just may play with my private area a little bit then. We'll start having sex. He don't kiss me or nothing. He just give me this sexy look while were having sex. All I feel is a whole lot of pressure while he going in and out.
2006-10-23 16:05:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Practice with yourself learn what you like and tell him...
2006-10-23 16:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most women will not have an orgasm during sex. It is really hard for a woman who is new to sex to have any real pleasure. Most women will have an orgasm from clitoral pleasure whether through oral or manual play. Let this guy know that eventhough he is ready to go you arent! he needs to get you warmed up first...it takes a man approx 11 minutes to reach an orgasm where a woman can take minimum 27 minutes if she can at all. I wouldnt stress over not being able to have an orgasm during sex, sure it is frustrating, but if you have ever masterbated on your own maybe you can show him what you like and he can learn to pleasure you better.
2006-10-23 16:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by amays068 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well this is very awful for you, first stop having relation with this guy, and talk about it if he is really worth it if not just let him go since is a waist of your beutyful time. Then start by trying new positions, more and more fore play, there are trully lots of girls that need more of this that others,my ex was one of them, when we use to make love it will take us about an hour or so to finish cause she needed it, and it was a pleasure to me, and at the same time I enjoy it. May be it has also to do if he really cares for you since must of the guys that dont care about girls just goes right into it and dont even worry about what the girls are thinking, think about it if really will care for you he will be asking you if your enjoin it or need more help, also be carefull since once you start thinking that you dont like the wait you and this guy make love then its over and like every body knows if you guys dont work good toguether in bed then it will not work nowhere else.... sorry honney is the truth. email me for more tips.... Im a guy but i really enjoi giving tips to girls in troble so the guy dont take anvantage of them. GOOD LUCK BEUTYFUL
2006-10-23 16:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by jonnybravo1965 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i think you are with the wrong person, he has to understand your feelings as well, or may be you need to explain to him and since you have done it only thrice you might not enjoy it cause it takes a lot more than that to enjoy, initially you do feel uncomfortable, so the partner being understanding is very important.
2006-10-23 16:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by johnyBgood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him to get down there and LICK IT! You'll love it! Tell him not to be so fast! He needs to take his time and get you hot. But you must tell him! he can't read your mind. Let him know what turns you on and find out yourself what you like. (Masterbate) I still think that if you get him to lick your puss you'll love it. It get's me VERY wet and makes sex much more enjoyable. In fact I hardly ever have an orgasm with just sex. It's usually when he eats me out that I have a BIG orgasm. TRY IT!!
2006-10-23 16:15:04 · answer #5 · answered by k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to get closer to you and rub against you more if he is circumcised he will take longer strokes have him try shorter quicker strokes also he can try foreskin restoration,reconstruction or a transplant. check these websites you may have a physical problem.but be careful i have heard women that get it done have problems with their bodies rubbing on clothing and being painful like a circumcised male.when you go to find articles put in a search for- not tonight dear you have no foreskin british women prefer uncircumcised penis.
2006-10-23 16:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, he's not paying enough attention to your body before he enters you. By letting him know that you need to be stimulated, maybe he might help you out. If not, I'd find another bf.
2006-10-23 16:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, and maybe play with him a lil bit and preventing him to jump over u will add on to the anticipation. tell him to try 69 or some other position and hopefully it helps?
2006-10-23 16:12:33 · answer #8 · answered by hiro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SOME FEMALES NEVER HAVE AN ORGASM DURING INTERCOURSE. I KNOW BCUZ I AM ONE OF THOSE FEMALES. I GET MINE BE ORAL SEX. IT TAKES ALOT OF STIMULATION AND WORK, BUT IT IS THE BEST FEELING IN THE WORLD.. TELL HIM YOUR NOT GETTING ONE, MEN WANT TO KNOW IF THEY ARE PLEASING YOU. AND ANOTHER THING IF HE DOESNT KISS YOU HE IS NOT INTO YOU. SEEMS LIKE HE IS IN IT FOR HIS SELF!!! LOOSE HIM..
2006-10-23 16:09:04 · answer #9 · answered by LilStar_Mom_of_3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need foreplay. You should also try masturbating so you can see what feels the best so you can help your partner know what to do.
2006-10-23 16:07:37 · answer #10 · answered by Kuji 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋