2006-10-23 15:53:54 · 19 answers · asked by demonquestions d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ABSOLUTELY POSITIVELY NOT!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-23 15:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by daniswired 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh boy what DO you do here? The smart thing was not to go with your friend to these kinds of places. Hopefully your relationship is good enough she'd believe you but if she ever asks just suck it up and tell her that. What I'm thinking is women talk. If your friend has a girl yours is friends with you might be headed for trouble. Women don't really care what you did they care you didn't tell them. Well, they DO but it's the not telling them that bothers most women the most. Also, say your girl went to a chippendales with her friends but she swore she didn't do anything, how would you feel? Or got a massage from another guy? The best bet is keep your mouth shut and stay out of massage parlors and strip clubs. If she asks you TELL HER the truth. BTW you can always tell your friends you don't want to go to these places. if they're your real friends they'll have your back. Peace.
Vin
2006-10-23 23:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your friend know your girlfriend? How often do they see eachother? If they see eachother all the time, then yes, you should tell the girl. You never know when something like this could come out because of your friend's loose lips. Tell her about it. If you are telling the truth about not doing anything, then she'll be able to tell.
If your friend and girlfriend never see eachother, why bother telling her? You didn't cheat. You shouldn't feel guilty. Don't complicate things with your girlfriend.
2006-10-23 23:04:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you volunteer the information to her now, then she is more likely to believe you that you haven't done anything sexual there and let you off with a warning.
But if she finds out later and confronts you with it, then your denials she probably won't believe. And then she will not be sure any more if she wants to continue her relationship with you.
2006-10-23 23:01:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you didn't do anything, don't hurt her. If you feel that you want to do something like that, then work through why you feel that way. If something is bothering your about sex life with your girlfriend, talk to her about those issues.
2006-10-23 22:57:17 · answer #5 · answered by charlie_n_tx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck no! That will be like telling her you went to a nude beach, but you didn't look.
2006-10-23 22:57:03 · answer #6 · answered by acowboydave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no .... but was this ur 1st time with ur friend??? have you been before?? alone??? remember it's always dumb to bring someone that could later bring it up & blackmail you. Next time go ALONE!
2006-10-23 23:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally up to you. Do you feel guilty about it ? Why ? Good Luck ! :)
2006-10-23 22:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea...sure, I don't believe you. What makes you think she will.
That was a dick move.
2006-10-23 23:39:50 · answer #9 · answered by Brother Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so, if u dint do anythng, then why shud u tell yo g.f??
c'mon dont be that scared..
2006-10-23 22:57:42 · answer #10 · answered by crazygirrl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO NO NO NO!!!!!!!!
Yeah I think it might be a bad idea to tell her.
2006-10-23 23:00:34 · answer #11 · answered by Paul S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋