i've been dating this guy for about three months and we have been very intimate with each other and every time we finish having sex he says .....oh the condom busted your probably getting pregnant right now.....or if i say my stomach hurts he'll say oh that's because your pregnant.....he keeps making comments about pregnancy or kids......he also says that he very very fertile all the time.......what is going on with him?
2006-10-23 15:53:41 · 27 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he wants to be a daddy-0
2006-10-23 15:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just thinks being really, really fertile makes him more of a "man". It's a security thing with him. So next time he does it, you say, "I think you're shooting blanks. All noise, and that's it." But don't let him go without a condom! Or you could get real serious and say, "If you can't find condoms strong enough for you, we shouldn't do this until you can." And back it up by holding off for a while.
2006-10-23 23:06:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants you pregnant. That could be good or bad. You know what your relationship is like and you know whether he is responsible enough for kids.
By the way, look into some birth control pills if you don't want a baby yet. He doesn't sounds like someone you can trust with that kinda thing.
2006-10-23 22:57:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well us men like fishing, nice men and the everyday ****** men. When u fish, u go 4 the beauty bass... Good fishermen wait 4 the fish 2 bite and u spend 1 heck of a time reeling it in and r proud when its in ur hands... Sounds like hes trying to snag u.. U know, dont let u bite just rip the hook in u and drag u in so no1 else can catch u. Srry if ur confused, i know what i mean.
2006-10-23 23:03:59 · answer #4 · answered by telumdedeus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a freak to me. Maybe he is one of those weirdos who throws away a girls birth control pills or intentionally pops holes in condoms. You could probably do a lot better than him. I don't know how old you are, but if you are not ready for a child yet you should stay away from him.
2006-10-23 22:59:08 · answer #5 · answered by kraazeekimmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'd best becareful with this guy, maybe he would break the condom on purpose. How many baby's mommas does he have? For a guy to know he's really fertile....he might have a few out there....
2006-10-23 23:01:01 · answer #6 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes prolly just joking around with you because maybe in the past time you tol dhim that you didnt want to get pregnant or scared too soo maybe thats just his way of joknig aroun di wouldnt worry about it too much but if he does keep sayin it and worse then tell him how you feel and that its bothering you well hope this helps you out =)))
2006-10-23 22:56:30 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds retarded. Perhaps he wants to scare you out of having sex with him again because he's scared like hell of having a child, thus, he makes jokes about it every possible chance he gets. Lame, really. I'd be annoyed too.
2006-10-23 22:56:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he's just very worried about having a baby because he simly wants one. I think you should tell him to stop or sooner or later he's gonna get on your nerves and your gonna call the whole relationship off.
2006-10-23 22:59:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's really immature or he's hoping to get you pregnant on purpose, for whatever reason. I'd stop having sex with him (and get on the pill, pronto!)
2006-10-23 22:56:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure what is going on. if he said it once or twice this may be a joke but everytime is definately not. if i were you i would start taking care of your own contraception so that there are no "accidents". tell him that you feel uncomfortable about him talking about it because he may think that he is being funny. good luck.
2006-10-23 22:58:39 · answer #11 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋