lol everyone seems to have bf or ex-bf problems lol.. anyways my problem is.. actually that my bf whos beeng bugging me to go back out with him for last month and a half is saying sorry about everything and how he shouldnt force things, and that hes going to try to be my friend for my hapiness, and that he really loves me and will do anything to keep me happy. I was like.. aww.. and wow.. cuz before he was lke "u have to go back out with me!" and that was pretty much the only choice i had.
I DONT THINK I WANT TO GO BACK OUT WIHT HIM but i hate seeing other girls flirt with him... and i dont know why but i dont want him to move on.. am i evil? What should i do...
Guys out there.. tell me whats wrong wth me!!
Girls out there.. what would you do!!??
2006-10-23 15:50:41 · 7 answers · asked by anna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i broke up with him after 4 and 1/2 months.. and well it wasnt because of a specific reason it hink i just needed space.. and he didnt cheat on me! and hes not a plyaer
2006-10-23 15:51:16 · update #1
It sounds like you're really not into him anymore. Of course you don't want to see him with anyone else, that's human nature. Distance yourself for awhile, see other people, do things that make you happy. If it's meant to be it will work out eventually. I did the on and off thing for awhile, but I never questioned if I wanted to be with the guy, and once I did that's how I knew it was over.
2006-10-23 16:10:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he has the right idea and may be a little more mature than you. Sorry, but the fact that you say you don't want to go out with him until you see other girls flirting just shows a basic lack of maturity on your part. If you can't stay focused on what you do or don't want then try to think about what's best for him. You say that he's a nice guy & not a player so why don't you want him to be happy? It could be that what's best for both of you would be to keep your distance until any residual feelings have faded away.
2006-10-23 16:05:53 · answer #2 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His just telling you what you want to hear!! Is this the person you want to spend your life with? If you need to think about it then the answer is NO!!......Let go off the past, time to move on! Its not easy but once you do you will never look back!!
2006-10-23 16:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by x y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make up your mind on what you want. There is no such thing as Ex-boyfriend problems. Either he's your man or he's not. If not leave him alone because yes the is evil. You don't want him but you don't want anybody else to have him.
2006-10-23 15:56:31 · answer #4 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you do want to go back out with him but you may have a little fear of commitment...
either give him another chance or let him move on
2006-10-23 15:55:34 · answer #5 · answered by brenda4ever 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GO out with him again you feel misrable .... or you could just be best friends ..i had same problem with my EX - can you blive that?
2006-10-23 15:54:32 · answer #6 · answered by Goliath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm do you love him? thats the question you should be asking YOURself
2006-10-23 15:54:36 · answer #7 · answered by yauh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋