2006-10-23 15:50:05 · 20 answers · asked by deljuana1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, and look for someone thst has not been/is not likely to be incarcerated. This is your life—not a movie. Do you want to have kids? Find a man to be their father and stop cheating.
2006-10-23 15:55:08 · answer #1 · answered by DrB 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way he will be able to tell is if you have sex right before he comes home.. you wont be tight.. Men can tell when a woman has been having sex.. how long has he be in for? Most of them don't mind u seeing someone else just as long as you cut it off when they come home.. You know if it was you locked up he would do the same... vice versa
2006-10-23 22:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by LilStar_Mom_of_3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends! Are you over this other person? Was it just a mistake and you regret it and will never do it again? If so, I don't think there's any reason to tell your boyfriend - you will just make him feel bad and miserable just when he thought everything will be better now that he's out of prison. But if you like this other guy and will continue seeing him - you better tell your boyfriend and break up with him!
2006-10-23 22:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Kellybelle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What's the difference between being incarcerated and being Iraq? When the person gets home they will know the difference, somehow, some way they will know or find out. You played with fire now you're gonna get burned. Ah!
2006-10-23 22:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO, that only helps you because of your guilt. If it serves no purpose but to hurt him, then why would you want to tell him, he is not your parents that you have to confess to. If you want him to know, I would say there is something wrong in the relationship. Either you really don't love him (cheating) or you are not really sure about your future with him. I would do some soul searching on this one, to find out how you really feel.
2006-10-23 22:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by doris_38133 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat and personally i don't know him! i was completely strait forward about the whole ordeal and he was slightly red for a few days but realised i was alone and wanted to feel some comfort. i don't think that you should lie to him but your personality has a lot to do with the choices you make and be aware that if you don't tell him it may eat at you for a long time!
2006-10-27 11:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by ashley_9901 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never date a man that has been incarcerated - red flag! Never cheat - red flag! You're in a mess. Get yourself out and fast.
2006-10-23 22:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i'm sry but depending on what he did to be put in jail i don't think you should have been with him in the first place..cheeting is wrong yes and you should own up to it but also don't overlook the fact that if this guy is bad news get out of the relationship FAST
2006-10-23 22:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
most likely your not his only girlfriend if he was in jail because you get bored and jealous in there so you call and write as many girls as you can. his homies probably already hooked him up with addresses of sluts he can write like yourself. worry about him cheating when he comes out because hes going to look for all those sluts he was writing too. and you know there sluts because there writing to inmates
2006-10-23 23:05:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is so efed up I don't know where to start... I supposed it depends on what who you cheated on him with. He may not "Know" but he will sense something is wrong. Just grow a pair and call it quits.
2006-10-23 22:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by Al 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋