My fiance and I broke up about 4 months ago. It was a long distance relationship and the distance was just to much of a problem.The break up was mutual but I still love her with all my heart. How do you deal with this? She wont return my phone calls or emails and I feel like I have lost my best friende.
2006-10-23 15:47:04 · 7 answers · asked by jcfuqua 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have suffered a real loss. The woman you lost may not have been the woman that you thought she was. You will probably never forget "her", but you must move on.
2006-10-23 15:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you'll be able to find a solution for this is through time. I have been through the same thing and I knw the feeling is unbearable. You just have to divert your mind somewhere else cos obviously if she doesnt return your calls, it means she has moved on. It's not worth it.
2006-10-23 15:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by innocence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been there, best thing to do is go on with your life, some day you will get back together but its going to take time,You broke the most important part of a relationship and that is your trust and her trust,without trust nothings going to work,
So you need to win her trust back then work from there.Thats all you can do? Good luck
2006-10-23 15:53:26 · answer #3 · answered by beneryberlecco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deal with it one day at a time...you find something that you enjoy (or even if it is your job) and you give that one thing all of your attention.....as the days go by you'll slowly get over it or at least it won't hurt as much til one day you'll be like damn when did I get here.....Chances are she still loves you and for some it is just easier to get over something if you isolate yourself from what you are trying to get over....There is no magic cure or quick fixes just time. Best of luck to you
2006-10-23 15:51:40 · answer #4 · answered by xxsanchabonitaxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I noticed right away that you were not over her. You still call her your fiance. She is now your ex-fiance. You need to either tell her you will move to whereever she is. If she doesn't get that, then move on.
2006-10-23 15:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by SAHM/Part Time Tutor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You move on, why do you want to convince someone to love you? There is someone out there that's just waiting to feel that way about you.
2006-10-23 16:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brave up and move on...lots of fish in that sea
2006-10-23 15:49:25 · answer #7 · answered by annastasia1955ca 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋