My name is mike and I have alot of friends, but this is about my best friend. She and I really became close and started telling each other everything over this last year and we hung out pretty much everyday. But twords the end of the summer and now that I am in college and she is in high school she seems to go out of her way to be away from me. She hints that she doesnt want me to come home on the weekends even though I am only an hour away, even when everybody else is busy and she wouldnt have anything to do. She doesnt really reply to phone calls or myspace messages anymore and I am getting the feeling now that she feels like she cant hang out with me anymore unless her boyfriend is around (he is my other best friend). There is also somebody else who I think I was replaced with. She does the things with her she used to do with me. In she doesnt really even call me anymore. Idk it just hurts because I am putting all this effort in to saving the friendship and getting nothing in return
2006-10-23 15:34:34 · 4 answers · asked by HALO-BRAWL 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
The two don't want a third wheel.
2006-10-23 15:42:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try not to have just one"best friend". Make more friends. As you grow older, sometimes you have to let go of childhood friends, its sad but true. Tell her this hurts you, as was said before, but also start making new friends
2006-10-23 15:44:48 · answer #2 · answered by ralahinn1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life goes on. Besides yr in college, and it seems that yr looking toward yr past. High school is yr past. New toward the future, and make new friends.
2006-10-23 15:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by regwoman123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and be honest.with your emotions,with her,just know that life changes. keep love in your heart, you never know the future.
2006-10-23 15:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋