i really still want to be friends with her....
2006-10-23 15:21:08 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to her while by yourselfs, and look at her at tell her that you care so much about her, that lately you have been getting different feelings for her but its leading more towards as a good friend, tell her that you treasure her friendship and that this break up is not her fault that its just best this way, tell her she deserves the truth and that she belongs with a guy who will treat her great one day and be with her always. Tell her that you hope if she can by anyway still be friends with you, that you would love that. Make sure you make it clear that she didnt do anything wrong, that shes a great girl, and that your not interested in another girl right now and thats not the reason why your breaking up with her. I am sure at first she will not understand and will be hurt, but give her that space for a week or two i am sure in the end if your there she will come around and be friends with you and realize this was for the best.
2006-10-23 15:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest....tell her the relationship just really isnt going where you thought it would be and before yall get any deeper....you would just rather be friends, and ask if that is okay with her. she wont handle it well at first, but be firm and stay nice. she may say she will change and you can tell her you are taking new focus and you have already made your mind up and it would be best that right now you guys just be friends.
2006-10-23 15:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is it so hard to tell the truth? Take her for dinner and tell her your paths have gone in different directions, you like her as a friend but not as a girlfriend. PERIOD.
2006-10-23 15:25:25 · answer #3 · answered by zlata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats the way you feel, then tell her. Don't keep pretending and sending the wrong messages. Just get it over with and hope that she will want to be friends too.
2006-10-23 15:23:16 · answer #4 · answered by Cherry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her nicely, and explain her that you see a realy good freind in her, or probably the best. Explain her that friendship is a relationship that last long, or till life time, and you want her to be a person, who will be there for you always..or you'll be ther for her always...
2006-10-23 15:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit her down and tell her the truth. She will not talk to you for awhile but she will come around. You don't stay with someone you are not in love with. That would be wrong.
2006-10-23 15:24:39 · answer #6 · answered by DH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just repeat the words that you just wrote. To me honesty is the best way to go.If it was me you told, I would probably be very hurt but at least I would still respect you for not playing games with my feelings.
2006-10-23 15:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by Marie S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her,, be honest.. but be sure that;s what you really want....cuz in the end if you change your mind, and decide you want her back.... she may or may not take you, and if she does.... well you're in for one hell of a ride... she'll never ever let you forget all the stuff you've done to her.......or maybe you might get to the realization That you don't want her... but wait a minute.... you don't want any one Else to have her either.....then you're really screwed..... take your pic...
2006-10-23 15:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by Traynor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her that you think of her more as a friend than a girlfriend that's what i did and it worked but it wasn't a girl it was a boy.
2006-10-23 15:24:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well take her out to the park or sumthing and tell her it was fun being around her and tell her that it is time to see more people. Maybe buy her somthing so she won't feel to bad.
2006-10-23 15:25:20 · answer #10 · answered by AJEE N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋