I look good, smart, go to school, work, treat people with respect, laid back, not dramatic so why can't i find a guy who will respect me and not try to take advantage of me? Im young 21 but im getting older not younger and it seems these guys get crazier and crazier lol. Are all the nice guys in hiding? If you know where they are please inform me.
2006-10-23 15:20:12 · 16 answers · asked by knd25th 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not shallow looks can be nice but i have gotten over that. i have dated the average joe and even he was putting on the good guy act in the end he was a jerk and i new this guy for like a year. fooled me
2006-10-23 15:55:02 · update #1
we are here. we are normally the ones that arent starring at your chest or *** when you walk by. try talking to the "quite" guys. generally they are the nicer ones. i feel you though, im 21 and everyones a complete ****
2006-10-23 15:46:58 · answer #1 · answered by 2nice 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The nice guys are out there...Sometimes we are so wrapped up in ourselves that we tend to overlook them. Stop and look around your surroundings and there you will see the nice guys. The nice guys are not usually the extremely handsome ones or the ones with the boyish good looks. They are average looking but know how to treat women with respect. You'll find a nice guy...
2006-10-23 15:33:34 · answer #2 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
all people's no longer appropriate. identity say do no longer seek for the "spectacular guy" yet some one with a competent scenes of morals and ethics. is conscious top from incorrect. in my adventure iv been advised i grew to become into the spectacular guy, and all i attracted is psycho, clingy chicks, you recognize the variety with significant luggage and drama 24-7. plus isent that maximum women folk dont like spectacular men cuz there some what uninteresting. i say spectacular females are uninteresting, yet than lower back im rather uninteresting lol
2016-11-25 01:21:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is when a girl says she wants a nice guy, she means she wants a nice good looking, perfect, no-flaws, has a bunch of money, will satisfy her every need guy. And he doesn't exist.
If you really want a nice guy, they're out there. But an above post is right, avoid the bars.
And Jennifer F is exactly right.
2006-10-23 15:26:30 · answer #4 · answered by Js_5 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Where are the bad guys hiding?
That is a question that can be answered in more ways than one.
One guys in this day and age have an image to uphold, it is considered not manly to have a girl and commit to her, it's more socially acceptable to be a (playa) then it is to have one woman and treat her right.
When in reality all I guy really needs to do is be himself, it's much more attractive than a guy running around trying to be something he's not.
2006-10-23 15:28:08 · answer #5 · answered by Engel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are only nice until the first girl walks on them. After that they're *** holes for life. You have to find one that hasn't ever been in a relationship before.
2006-10-23 15:26:29 · answer #6 · answered by PS 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys aren't in hiding- they're all over the place. Unfortunately, us women like a challenge and tend to write the nice guys off as "friends only" material. You'd be amazed what you'd find lying around if you'd open up your eyes and look...
2006-10-23 15:23:09 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer F 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
May I suggest dating someone a little older and more mature. Don't be discouraged, a nice guy will come along, just don't settle for anything less.
2006-10-23 15:25:58 · answer #8 · answered by Aces 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to church. They are everywhere. Avoid the bar scene. If your looking for the alpha male type, then you would be contradicting yourself and that's why you can;t find the guy.
2006-10-23 15:22:34 · answer #9 · answered by james w 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they're not hiding from u, u just cant see them for what they really are. but stay away from bars and places like that. Usually none are ever there.
2006-10-23 15:30:09 · answer #10 · answered by The Evil Drummer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋