2006-10-23 15:17:08 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. If that is all he cares about you, then trust me, you do not need him. He does not know how to treat a woman.
2006-10-23 15:18:46 · answer #1 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I'ld this dump this guy. First he doesn't stop other guys from touching you, and now he says this. No man has the right to give this kind of ultimatum to a woman. Perhaps I'm wrong, but if you stay with this guy you're going to fall hard. As I said before, dump him and find a guy that will treat you with respect, and love you for who you are and not what you do.
2006-10-25 23:46:50 · answer #2 · answered by Phil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, NO, and NO. If he says put out or I break up with you. What does that tell you? He DOESN'T care about "you", he only cares about sex with you. And if he doesn't get it from you he will get it from someone else. IF he does get it from you he'll use you until he finds someone else interesting. NO, NO and NO. Good Lord, if he cared, he would not say these things. Save yourself from this "boy".
2006-10-23 15:19:53 · answer #3 · answered by 'Barn 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, NO, NO, NO!!!! and NO!
If he cares about you, he won't pressure you.
If you care about yourself (and you should come first here) then follow your heart. But sex should always be an expression of love, not because you feel pressured that someone will leave you.
He has no respect for you if he keeps pressuring you - if he does, kick him to the curb and don't look back.
If you give in to pressure, you'll look back later in life and regret not waiting for the right guy.
2006-10-23 15:25:03 · answer #4 · answered by inkyfingers1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to...then NO.
But the fact that he is pressuring you is pretty damn selfish on his part. When you are ready, then you'll know.
Think of this way...each time you sleep with someone...you give a piece of yourself to them. Something that you can't get back. Does he deserve it? If you just care about him then I would say no. Even if you said you loved him, if he reciprocated those feelings seriously....then he wouldn't mind waiting for you.
2006-10-23 15:20:43 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, of course you should put out!
HIM
Drop'im like a hot potato and go find yourself someone that will treat you like a person and not a lay.
Good luck. You deserve a LOT better than this.
2006-10-23 15:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to have a nice life... just have it without you.
After you "put out" he is going to dump you anyhow. The best thing for you to do is to maintain your integrity, and wait until you are much older, and are doing it for the right reasons and not because you are told to by some guy.
2006-10-23 15:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by Bradly S 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The answer to that is NO. He just wants to get sex out of you. He doesn't respect you. Please don't put out just because a guy wants you to and will break up with you if you don't put out. Be strong, break up with him. Then find yourself someone who actually respects you and wants to be with you because of who you are and not just what you can offer to them in terms of sexual fulfillment.
2006-10-23 15:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by hearts99992000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are talking about sex and if you are then dont do it unless you are married dont give yourself away to anyone no metter how much you care about them. I he says"if you love me then you will do it"DONT because if loved you then he wouldnt even be asking. Do not do it please because i promise you will regret it forever. And your partner could have aids you cant see the synptoms of aids they are internal. SO please do not give yourself away. if he really cares about you and wants to keep you then he would not disrepect you like that. you need to realize that this guy you thought you knew might just be after you for your body . please dont do it!!! the Bible says it is wrong and to flee from sexual immoralality! It says it in 1 Chorinthians 10.
2006-10-23 15:29:07 · answer #9 · answered by Tiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no!!!! IF you don't want to sleep with him then don't...never go against what you feel or what you believe in just because he'll break up with you...if he cared about you then he would respect your wishes not to
2006-10-23 15:19:58 · answer #10 · answered by xxsanchabonitaxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! He just cares about getting laid and not you. Don't ever put out just because they threaten to dump you. Find someone who will respect you even if you don't put out! good luck!
2006-10-23 15:19:44 · answer #11 · answered by L♥G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋