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Heres my story i have my son sept 14th 2006. we had sex the day after he was bornand almost everyday since. he never withdraws and ( reason for trying again)i was wondering like what % of a chance do i have a being pregnant? i go to my 6 week check up on wensday and i wanna no what they will do will they pregnancy test me or not?our son passed away on the 7th of oct from sids.before we started trying for our son we said we want to have our kids close in age so that is why we started trying again right away. what are the problem trying this son and has anyone become pregnant right after child birth SOME ONE HELP ME I NEED INFORMATION.

2006-10-23 15:14:29 · 12 answers · asked by Mommyof2angels 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

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Sorry about the loss of your son.

Planning your children to be close in age is OK. 9 or 10 months apart wouldn't be healthy for YOUR body, NOR is sex the day after you give birth.

You could very well be pregnant. And yes they will give you a pregnancy test if you ask for it, and sometimes they do it anyway.

I would suspect that since you were trying to conceive that it will be a wonderful thing to hear that you are pregnant. I would be aware of stress related issues, emotional trauma from the death of your son and even new worries could arise.

SIDS is a very well known occurrence, but little is known of the cause.

Personally, if I found that I were NOT pregnant I would give my body and emotions time to heal.............

2006-10-23 15:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anna M 5 · 0 0

I got pregnant by the time I went to my six week checkup for my 2nd pregnancy. The pregnancy was really hard. I didn't give my body enough time to heal. Now I have two daughters less than a year apart in age. I love them both and have no regrets. If you are or are trying to be, make sure you eat as healthy as possible and take your vitamins. Your body is still trying to replenish what you lost while you gave birth. I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your son. I know what it is like to lose a son (not in the same exact way as you, but I lost a son also). I hope everything works out for you!!!

2006-10-23 18:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by mommyuv2 1 · 0 0

It's in all probability you'll end up pregnant. Right after beginning your hormones are nonetheless very very top and considering the fact that you simply have beginning, there is not any technique to inform should you've began freeing eggs once more but. You're possibilities of having pregnant are truthfully so much greater proper now. I might say wait a month, considering the fact that you do not know while your durations will begin once more after which scan. Congrats for your latest addition.

2016-09-01 01:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

Your chances are greater than not. Drs. say to wait 6 weeks after giving birth to have sex but that doesn't always happen. Sometimes it happens sooner. If sex is sooner the cervical area is wide open and ready for pregnancy. I know someone who has 4 children in a row due to "early" sex. She didn't know she was pregnant with the next child until going to her post-birth check-up and wanting birth control. Dr. did a vaginal and check and each time she was pregnant already!

2006-10-23 15:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Fertility returns as early as 2 weeks after childbirth. So, if you have had unprotected sex you can definitely be pregnant. You should let your Dr. that you think that you are pregnant. You are at a higher risk for complications like preterm labor and preterm birth when you have pregnancies close together.

I am very sorry for the loss of your son. Take care.

2006-10-23 16:22:31 · answer #5 · answered by KK 1 · 0 0

You really should have waited at least a few weeks prior to having sex. Im very sorry for your loss of your precious baby. It's a good idea to wait several more months before you try again, due to the fact that your body needs time to rebuild/recover from the birth of your 1st. A recent study has shown that the optimal time inbetween babies is 18months so that your body will be able to adequately nourish the 2nd baby. God Bless you and follow your heart.

2006-10-23 15:20:21 · answer #6 · answered by lizstonerock@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0 0

First of all I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your son. Second, you are very very very fertile for a while after giving birth. Your chances are probably pretty good. If you think you might be then let your doc know when you go for your 6 wk check up and they should give you a test. GL!

2006-10-23 15:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First of all I would like to give my condolences to u on the passing of your son. To answer ur question it seems to me with the stories i hear there's a higher chance to get pregnant again after giving birth than it would be if u waited. Good Luck!

2006-10-23 15:18:00 · answer #8 · answered by kittykat 4 · 0 0

Its still pretty likely to get pregnant right after giving birth. I know some one whose sister is just a few months younger then him. Good luck!

2006-10-23 15:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by lil_danca06 4 · 0 0

I think your chances would be pretty good. But I thought you weren't supposed to have sex for like 6 weeks or so after birth? I hope you haven't done any damage in there!

2006-10-23 15:16:56 · answer #10 · answered by someoneoutthere 5 · 0 1

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