I know the basic rule is ask her yourself, but for a very shy person like me this is much easier said then done. I can't just go up to a girl and say Hey! I like you! Will you go out with me? I have to work into a conversation, and then I have to basically have them ask all the questions and me just say yes or no. I dont know why I just freeze up when the time comes around. Any pointers?
2006-10-23 15:01:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well. sooner or later you gotta face your fears. you`ve got to ask somebody out. so why not now? it`s okay. the worse that can happen is her saying " no " but that won`t happen. don`t worry, just act normal, be yourself. good luck ! =]
2006-10-23 15:05:17 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first make sure u know her a little before u ask. If u can find something to talk about at the end of the conversation just tell her u have one serious question for her and then ask or if ur still to shy to do that then write her a note and slip it into her locker or give it to one of her friends and have them give it to her.
2006-10-23 22:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by slackster58 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want to ask her that exact question you could get a bunch of people to go to the movies and then ask her if she wants to go and also tell her that there will be other people, if you want you can even ask her if she wants to take a friend because it make both of you more comfortabel to not have the pressure of being alone with eachother. if all goes well then ask her again only this time for a solo date because you will have already have gotten the question out once right?
2006-10-23 22:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Soccer Chik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you work yourself into a conversation than your halfway there bro. Next just ask if she'd like to continue the conversation over a cup of coffee or something.
2006-10-23 22:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, congrats on trying your best to ask your crush out. Now, if you just can't walk up to a girl and say,"Will you go out with me?" Then why don't just write a love letter saying that you love her soo much, will love to go out with her, and write a love poem.Ask the librarian at your public library on love poems. It should be helpful. Put it in her locker, give it to her at lunch, whenever you see her.Give her 2 days to respond. And then walk up to her on the Day 3(if she still hasn't responded) and ask her how she feels about you and would she like to go out with you. Also, ask an adult,or friends to help you. They can give you great tips. Good luck!
2006-10-23 22:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by Roxy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first do you think the girl thinks that you are ok? try saying hi, act cool. don't make a fool of yourself. then one day walk over and go like, hey whats up or something at least casual. then when she answers, ask some other questions. (don't think yo uthink that math teacher is beastly?) and try to get her to laugh. GIRLS LIKE IT WHEN BOYS MAKE THEM LAUGH! im a girl, and I know I love it. then when she starts talking to you and stuff, just ask very casually, hey, just wondering, are you doing anything on ________? and then, sure, because I was just wondering if you could go to _________ with me or something. its not very hard once you say it and you are relieved that you got it over with!
2006-10-23 22:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dont just go to a girl and say do u want to go out cuz the word reject would hit you in the face like you said go in to a convorcation yup and maybe she thinks about it if you got game you get her but dont show her you shy
2006-10-23 22:06:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well start a conversation and then in the middle of it just ask,
2006-10-23 22:03:58 · answer #8 · answered by iambeautiful65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here we go...just be casual about it...girls don't like when guys are nervous...just act normal and ask her if she would like to go out some time and then you can just go with the flow.
2006-10-23 22:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by dancergirly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am very shy myself so i understand! but i do better on the phone or on the Internet! so slip her a piece of paper telling her how to get a hold of you and then talk to her on line! but don't tell her right away that you like her! that might scare her away so keep it on the DL! ha and then eventually tell her!
2006-10-23 22:08:15 · answer #10 · answered by AlLySoN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋