my step dad's family and my dad. well the both put me down really bad about my weight .my step dad and his family .kinda treats me as a outcast now .like am no good any more..and my real dad he keeps tell me i need to starve myself and dump my boyfriend .and that my boyfriend should be shame for going out with me because i am fat . i use to be skinny most of my life .. and one day .i just started gaining weight .and in the 2 months of gaining weight i gained 100lbs and the doctor tell me i eat very healty and they tested me for thyroids and one doctor just said he was stumped and i should go find another doctor.and i am now pregnant. and my dad tells me i am not gonna be a good mother becasue i cant take care of myself because i am fat. and i tell them they hurt me by saying this .and i am hurt i feel very ugly and fat ..and i dont want to do and i cant loose weight. i tryed and i gain...and now since the doctor checks my weight she notice in 3 weeks i lost 4 gain 10 lost 9
2006-10-23 15:00:19 · 7 answers · asked by nonya 1 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Don't let them get to you. You're pregnant, so you listen to what the DOCTORS tell you...not what your father figures tell you. They aren't perfect either, I'd wager! Not to mention the fact that (and this sounds harsh, I know) grown men are the WORST for looking for real answers about things concerning their kids. They want to think there can't be anything wrong with you, so it must be your fault. It sounds to me like it's NOT your fault, and there is something medical going on. Keep going to your doctors appointments and do what they suggest, but don't do anything drastic while you're pregnant, just to make your fathers happy.
2006-10-23 15:04:45 · answer #1 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your pregnant now so be very careful about weight loss. You can still loss, but you have to be very gradual about it. Gaining 100 pounds in two months is amazing. I would continue to look for the cause because that is not normal, as you know.
2006-10-23 22:03:48 · answer #2 · answered by kny390 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is to bad ur family treats u this way, they probally dont relize that it hurts u, but they also think they are helping, i dont think anybody wants to be fat, u will need to exercise that is ur only hope, it is very strange that u eat healthy, i knew sumone u always claimed she ate healthy and gain a massive amount of weight but we caught her binginig after about 2 years, that is usally from emotional problems, there is an answer to ur weight problem, only u can find it
2006-10-23 22:06:05 · answer #3 · answered by menguss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just need to keep your head high and keep going through life full speed! U are beautiful no matter what they say!!!! And i know what u are going through my sister has been doing me the same way for years and the weird part is is that she is bigger than i am. But u and everyone who reads this we are all beautiful people no matter what anyone says! oh yeah good luck with the baby.
2006-10-23 22:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by honey_bun_801 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore them, and like u for u. As for gaining so much weight in so little time it could be a tumor they are not checking for. I seen this one case on the MONTEL WILLIAMS SHOW where this girl who people thought was pregnant actually had a cycst on one of her ovaries.
2006-10-23 22:04:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check with a doc about getting some prescription diet medication, or check into have your stomach stapled. Remember, it isn't just about diet, it's about excercise too. Make sure you are excercising at a high right rate for at least 20 minutes per day.
2006-10-23 22:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by LiveLifeBeGood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your age plays a big part, I'm fat too, i have heard it from my family 2. do the best u can we r beautifully in God's eyes no matter what! God Bless
2006-10-23 22:14:05 · answer #7 · answered by Just me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋