my boyfriend is in maimi, I live in Orlando we both go to school and only see each other every month or so.
2006-10-23 14:59:05 · 16 answers · asked by Whitney J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bad bet...
2006-10-23 15:00:17 · answer #1 · answered by Gabrio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both in school, and pursueing your dreams in education, long distance relationships do have their problems, like maybe you and or he will meet someone close by. If I was in a relationship, I personally would not want a long distance relationship. I was in one at one period of my life, and even though it was 100 miles away, over time the reality of it took hold and made us both realize that we were to far apart. Good thing was we remained friends. But only you know what you can handle and it sounds like you have your doubts...
2006-10-23 22:08:58 · answer #2 · answered by Jamaison D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes long distant relationships work, and sometimes they don't. I feel that it depends on how serious the relationship is. If you two have been together very long, and really want to pursue the relationship, and both feel you want to be together, then it can work. But.....it is going to take a lot patience, understanding, honesty and trust for the both of you! It will take BOTH of you to make it work, and that should be a understanding between you two, before you pursue it! If it's what you both want, I hope everything works out for you, and send good wishes your way!!
2006-10-23 22:57:16 · answer #3 · answered by Jillybeanyweiney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some people, it works, and for others, it doesn't. If you really like/love this person, and want to stay with him, then you will have to really work at it, because it can be hard, especially when you need a hug or a kiss and they aren't there to give it to you. My boyfriend's in Washington State, while I'm in North Carolina, yet we're doing great and making it work, because we love each other. You can too.
2006-10-23 22:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by Maico 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a month? Please, that's no real relationship, you need to end it ASAP. Honestly, I doubt a guy can go 30 days without some bedroom quality time. Especially considering he has a girlfriend.
ALTHOUGH, there is no rule that says you two can't lower the status of the relationship to 'friends with benefits'. You may want to look into that. Yeah...
Good luck.
2006-10-23 22:04:32 · answer #5 · answered by Bmenace 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really have to keep working at it.......don't stay apart too long or 'life' ends up taking place and either one of you may need somebody 'right here & right now' and eventually, the "Dear John" letter comes to you in the form of a phone call. However, not all situations are the same. Keep up with emails, ecards, phone calls and make your visits 'special'. Keep the 'sizzle' when you visit! I wish you well and good luck.
2006-10-23 22:03:19 · answer #6 · answered by carolsand10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you can make it work and you can see each other a decent enough emount of time to make you happy I think its good,but if you feel like you don't see him enough and want someone closer then you'd have 2 break it off,but hey if it works go for it!
2006-10-23 22:02:00 · answer #7 · answered by College Educated 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take to much out of a relationship. Never works out. Move on and if it's meant to be it will.
2006-10-23 22:02:55 · answer #8 · answered by Fangs_4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They suck and I will never do it again!!! I want a man who can be with me all the time not just every once in a while.
2006-10-23 22:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by unicornfarie1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will not last unless yall really work at it. if you or he starts to have excuse instead of time on the road give it up.
2006-10-23 22:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by Coach inthefight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and i had a gf in new york n i live in texas n we still luved each other u 2 live in florida rite well then dont whine or worry bout it
2006-10-23 22:01:01 · answer #11 · answered by el boricua 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋