my bf does alot but i want him to do more. I like him to play with my hair, hug me from behind, etc., but he doesn't do this. How can i tell him i want him to do more??
2006-10-23 14:55:22 · 9 answers · asked by annetteXskye 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just casually mention it....something like" you know what really gets me is when you play with my hair"....it's not bossy and it clues him in....it'snot that he doesn't want to please you it's just he doesn't know exactly how...just make sure not to get offensive if he points out things to you as well
2006-10-23 14:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by xxsanchabonitaxx 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well. some guys are different from others. some would open doors for you and would do everything you just said, but some don`t, they wouldn`t even bother doing things like that. but i guess you should just talk to him about it. it might work out. good luck ! =]
2006-10-23 21:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be a clutz! Show him what you want by doing it to him first and then tell him how that would turn you on.
2006-10-23 21:57:49 · answer #3 · answered by blueshu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going out and you and your boyfreind dont have problems talking to each other you should just tell him.
2006-10-23 22:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by Niki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a great example you did for us,now you can do it direct in oral form, so that he gets your point,hope that will help,good luck.
2006-10-23 21:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you say he doesalot already why can't you be happy with that? some people just aren't as touchy as others
2006-10-23 21:57:59 · answer #6 · answered by foolsowl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
open with "would it bother you to do these things for me, to show me your affection", see what he says and take it from there.
2006-10-23 21:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by gonzotis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him,, he may not know how you feel.
2006-10-23 21:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by avery 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. he won't know unless you tell him
2006-10-23 21:58:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋