when i was 13 i got my period and i was shocked. Now a month later i'm 14, my boyfriend dylan said, Tori babe, do u have ur period, because my stomach hurt a lot so i rushed in the bathroom, got a quarter and put it in for a tampon and i put the tampon in and i walked out and i told dylan that i was just starving which i was, but i'm afraid if my boyfriend found out that i lied to him, hhe would break up with me, but should i tell him that i have my period?
2006-10-23 14:49:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body ➔ Other - Skin & Body
Hey girly, I am 12 going on 13. All my friends are 13 and 14, so I know how they act, and what they think too. I started too, but it only lasted a month and it hasnt come back (it probaly wont either until another year) I only told like my best friend EVER. I could not tell my other friends! Not my other close friend, so why in the world would I tell my boyfriend? Well yea this is were the "juicy" story comes in. You see, every single day I always hear about how this year the boys are watching the girl video and the girls are watching the guys. And all the guys get grossed out when they watch it. So yea my friends brother, who is in 10 grade now, was watching it, and he was like "ew its hairy" and all the guys were sickened. SO yea thats my story, so guys shouldnt really care. Now heres the part where I come in with how I think you should mention it to ur boy or if u should not. I think you shouldnt, because its reaaally embbarressing, but if its to save a relationship, maybe you should. Lets figure this out. First tackle the situation by stating the problem:
(((((Should I tell my boyfriend I started or not?))))))
Next, figure out your resources:
(((((Your friends, him, parents, and Yahoo!Answers :] ))))))
Then, state your choices:
(((((Tell him, or not to tell him)))))
Next, find out postives and negatives that go under each choice:
Tell him Do not tell him
1. He will stop buggin you 1. He will ask you again sumtime
2. He MAY be uncomfotable for a bit 2. He will wonder about you
3. You feel like there is nothing to hide 3. You can not be embarressed
4. Itll be easier to be around him more 4 He may not understand you at times
Next, Evaluate your choices
((((Evaluate))))
Almost done! Then make you decision
((((( Your opinion here)))))
Finally, make out your plan on how to tell him or if not to tell him. If you do tell him, make sure you make sure its a good time to tell it like it is.
G'luck!
2006-10-23 15:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by maddy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A 14 year old boy is probably too immature to handle this type of info. If you get in a fight he could turn it against you and tease you.
If you are 14 you shouldnt be worrying about boys breaking up with you. You'll meet lots of boys in your lifetime. You dont have to do anything to try and keep a boy. Let the boy call you and worry about keeping you.
Also, I hope you're not using your real first and last name. If you are, change that pronto. Theres lots of creeps out there. If your parents saw this they'd probably have a heart attack. You'll make yourself seem so much more ladylike if you use a fake name.
2006-10-23 15:04:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he asks, just say yes, but it's really not any of his business. It's personal, yeah, but it's also nothing to be embarrassed about! If you're afraid he'll make fun of you, then break up with him instead of telling him anything. Having a guy you think you're supposed to trust turning your "friend" into an object of ridicule is not very fun. Find a guy who doesn't ask so many questions. The worry isn't worth it.
2006-10-23 14:55:22 · answer #3 · answered by Angela M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is nothing to be ashamed of. Most girls your age have already started getting their period, too. I started in 5th grade and most of my friends were shocked but got theirs soon enough. I would hope you are not having intercourse at this age so it should make no real difference to your boyfriend. Besides you really didn't lie, just didn't want to mention something personal that he probably doesn't want to know anyways.
2006-10-23 14:55:32 · answer #4 · answered by www.lindseysmith.pureromance.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it's to save your relationship, there's no harm. Just don't go into great detail (most men don't like to hear about it). What is the link you made between being hungry and buying a tampon?
2006-10-23 14:53:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can tell him if you want or if you feel comfortable telling him. Im 20 and my b/f always knows when I will be getting my period bc one or two days before it I get so cranky and irratible haha. So its up to you if you want to tell him or not. Your only 14 so dont rush things K?
2006-10-23 14:53:06 · answer #6 · answered by SweetieBear20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it'd be kind of awkward if you brought it up now that that happened a little while ago. But he was asking just to be nice, right? That's kind of cute, that he cared and stuff. If he asks again, which would be kind of weird, but whatever, you should just be like "yeah..." and he'll probably be like "that sucks, let's go get icecream" or something like that.
2006-10-23 14:53:19 · answer #7 · answered by modernartmakesmewannarockout 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it comes up you can tell him, but dont just be like "i got my period" out of nowhere. It would be something really stupid to break up over.
2006-10-23 17:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by Phoenix D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, at 14 you are to young to have a boyfriend. And since when is it your boyfriends business to know this? Let alone be asking you about it. And where the hell is your mother? You did right by not telling him. And if he asks a question again about your woman hood, tell him to take hike. It is none of his business.
If you were my daughter and your boyfriend asked about this, I would kick his lousy butt!
2006-10-23 15:02:53 · answer #9 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 2⤊ 3⤋
Ew it's none of his business about your body. You're not going to ask him "have you pooped today?" or something gross like that. I wouldn't worry about it, it's your body and I think it'd be embaressing to tell him. It's a girl thing, he has guy issues, you have girl issues. It's gross that he wants to know about your period, periods are so gross.
2006-10-23 14:52:34 · answer #10 · answered by fuzzy_fruitcake 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋