My ex wants to be with me only when she feels happy does that mean im getting used she has postpartum depresion so is that normal
2006-10-23 14:41:11 · 7 answers · asked by east_sidevato 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
don't do it unless you want to but she is trying to use you and that **** hurts when youull for it.
I did
2006-10-23 14:51:31 · answer #1 · answered by az_skulls 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if she has postpartum then you need to do whatever she asks you to do. it is the worst feeling in the world. you feel as if there is no hope for you. you need to be really supportive give her lots of hugs and help her as much as you can. i am speaking from experience because i had postpartum depression.
also if she hasn't, then she really needs to talk to her ob about this. if it is not treated then it can last for up to a year. even if she is breastfeeding she can still take Zoloft.
2006-10-23 22:08:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she has PPD its a serious thing and she needs to get some kind of help. If she is your ex then she shouldn't want to see you quite honestly except for your child - unless you left each other on friendly terms. But you need to understand what she is going through and help her if possible. You aren't being used if she has PPD - she needs help. If you can't give it maybe you can find her someone who can.
2006-10-23 21:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by Rae T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your ex?! well thats not normal but maybe for a person with postpartum depression it could be so just be there for her
2006-10-23 21:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kappy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, postpartum?ok, that menes she just had a child, and is very stressed bout it...if this is tru, and she isn't usually lyk dis, stay with her, she may need all the support she can get, but not no how to get or keep it...it is normal...
2006-10-23 21:48:59 · answer #5 · answered by sturgis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesnt want you to see the side of her that makes her sad I doubt your being used but maybe she should get help
2006-10-23 21:45:03 · answer #6 · answered by weirded out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore your ex,,, if she really loves u,,, she will love you either she's happy or not,,, there's a lot of people here that can love you truly and better...
2006-10-23 21:49:16 · answer #7 · answered by phunkee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋