After working on our company's musical today, my boyfriend and I (who are both in the play) leave. We are going to drive home. He sees this other girl we are somewhat friendly with. She come over, says hi, blah blah blah. She is kinda flirting with him and he then picks her up and swirls her around! I have no clue what that came from but now I have been in a bad mood and angry about it. Should I? Or should I not even think about it...
2006-10-23 14:12:37 · 12 answers · asked by Norah 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obviously you should talk to him about it. Say that you don't want him to think that you don't trust him, but that from what you saw, you have a good reason to have suspisions. If he starts to use the "trust" line (i.e. if you can't trust me then the relationship won't work) then say, you know what? You're right. If you really liked me, you would tell me the truth and we can work on it, because if you lie, then it'll keep lying. Tell him you'll ask him once, and only once and whatever he says you'll believe him, but tell him all you want is the truth and you'll leave him alone. :)
2006-10-23 14:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Besch 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have no idea what that came from, as you state, then you have no context in which to accurately judge the incident. Ask him what it was all about so that you can make a reasonable assessment of how you should feel about his actions. Quit assuming things and stewing in your own juices.
PS If his reason for his action was fairly innocent, then stop being angry with him about it. Don't place your anger at her for being flirty onto him, she's the one you should be angry with.
2006-10-23 21:21:33 · answer #2 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think anyone would be a little put off by his actions. I would talk to him about it and find out what it was all about. And you could also put it to him like this, what if the situation was turned around and you were the one being twirled around by another man, how would he feel. Good luck and God bless
2006-10-23 21:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad! A guy should have a basically hands off policy towards other women--other than the polite cheek kiss or handshake...
2006-10-23 21:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD TELL HIMN THAT YOUI DID NOT LIKE IT AND ASK HIM WHY HE DID IT. IF HE GETS ANGRY AND DUMPS YOU YOU ARE BETTER OF THEN YOU CAN GO GET A GUY THAT IS HAPPY TO HAVE YOU AND DOES NOT NEED TO BE SPINNING GIRLS AROUND. GOOD LUCK AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT HIM DUMPING YOU THERE MORE MEN THAN ONE AND THERE A LOT BETTER ONES THAN HIM.
2006-10-23 21:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He picked her up and swriled her round, so what!! Just relax, after all, its you he's going out with... I mean, its not like he slept with her!
Just be cautious, but don't over-react...
2006-10-23 21:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by ]x[Jodie]x[ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is truly bothering you that bad, you should tell your b/f that it upset you, don't scream or yell, it never helps, tell it to him normally.
2006-10-23 21:17:18 · answer #7 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it were my B/F I'd be madder than ****...Did he give any exclamation to why he did it..Yes you have a right to be upset or at least I would be..
2006-10-23 21:19:17 · answer #8 · answered by Just Dreamin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust him --- he choses you not her --- no need to be mad --- let him know that you think it was inappropriate but get his side as well and please dont get angry --- something like this can make the relationship stronger
2006-10-23 21:16:45 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O_O if i was in your place, i would be a little upset, talk to him about it and tell him how you felt about it. he'll understand.
2006-10-23 21:14:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋