how come whenever i hang out with my bf i am always the one to ask do you want to hang out or do somethng, he never asks me, he just says he just figured we were going to hang out, and also when we first met like a yr ago, i would text him and he would write back sweet messages and stuff but doesnt do that anymore, even if i send pics to him, he would get all excited and write back, now he doesnt even do that, he says he is really busy at work and has more work these days because this one guy quit. so whats the deal here...?
2006-10-23 14:05:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys don't call. It's their way of life! No worries.
2006-10-23 14:06:46 · answer #1 · answered by Shade S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is bored with you. Or maybe he is just so used to being your man that he takes small things for granted. Talk to him. let him know how you feel. But don't make it look like you are pointing fingers. Also after dating for so long it is often assumed that you are going to hang out together if you do so on a regular basis anyway. Just after a couple months me and my relationships hit that point where we don't ask we just do.
2006-10-23 14:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by moonstar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sry about that,its not encouragin at all,but was he workin wen u met him a yr ago or did he change his kind of job?take out time n find out urself if he has really bin workin,if he has not bin workin then take a bold step out of d mess!to be candid wit u wld u like to settle wit some1 who hardly has ur time n cant even call?D hand writings ar on d wall,probe into d situation n decide if u want to be hapy. cheers.
2006-10-23 14:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by kayzzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe u should talk to him... like really talk to him. tell him how u feel. maybe he really is busy and maybe he is trying to tell u sumthing. continue to type messages and stuff, but maybe he's still a little shy. When he's at work, ask him how his day is going. But dont send too many messages, it could get annoying and he wont respond
2006-10-23 14:09:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs to reevaluate his priorities --- are you important in his life or is work more important
he also could be using work as an excuse --- while not cheating he may not want to spend time with you --- a good discussion is needed to clear the air
2006-10-23 14:09:26 · answer #5 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how you're feeling, and give him the benefit of the doubt. maybe he really IS just extra busy.
if things don't change to your liking, though... maybe look for someone a little more...enthusiastic?
2006-10-23 14:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by Eva Marie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes moved on...he just doesnt feel the same way as he used to..
2006-10-23 14:09:31 · answer #7 · answered by TWiSTED|♥|ELEGANCE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's moved on but wants to have you around. Confront him.
2006-10-23 14:07:17 · answer #8 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres an idea-ask him!
2006-10-23 14:07:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
his love has drifted away... im sorry to say this
2006-10-23 14:06:51 · answer #10 · answered by Katie T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋