2006-10-23 13:55:55 · 34 answers · asked by steff w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes. =[ but don`t worry, everyone goes through that. it`s part of life.
2006-10-23 13:58:49 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, some more than once. Often times people have a different agenda than you do. What may be perceived as someone loving you could be a cover-up for loneliness, needing money, sex or anything. It's not your fault if you went into a relationship with an open heart and mind. I decided that I would be more alert and see people for what they are. What you're mourning is what you thought that person was going to be in your life, you're very disappointed. If someone broke your heart that means that there is room for the right person to come along. My personal mantra is I'd rather have hurt feelings than a broken heart. Often times we see a ship about to sink and decide to stay on it rather than swim to shore.
2006-10-23 14:04:36 · answer #2 · answered by indepwman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah this may sound very fatuous but I fell in love with my teacher at first site didn't have the guts to tell him eventhough we became good friends but sounds like talking to my guidance counsellor didn't work out because it broke my heart when she reasoned it out for me so sounds like up to this day I still think about it and I just laugh about it because now I am accessing into the real chapter of my life, college and so I've settled and moved on likewise last month I was crying for heaven's sake couldn't get him off because I missed him too much and lately my school. I felt incomplete without him but it was until when my counsellor put herself in that position that I felt heart broken that it will never work out and besides telling him will mean that our camaraderie will be sabotaged no longer will I beable to have a colloquial discourse with him or rather he will just stay away from my email and not reply which I have longed for. This has taught me what true love really is it may sound prate but it has taught me that loving someone is hard to let go it will hurt even more when you love that person too much without loving yourself very hard to move on.
2006-10-23 15:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by Shirley l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and when it does happen to me I take that Q to the bar and talk sloppy all the way to some dudes house in hopes of getting rid of the thoughts of the person who has just broken my heart aka rebound. Ofcourse this never works but still attempted each time.
2006-10-23 14:06:12 · answer #4 · answered by b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah it was along time ago bout 6 years, i thought this girl would be the one and loved everything about the relationship then one day she phoned to tell me she no longer loved me, i didn't see it coming and never really got an explanation, ive never really recovered and have moved round from one rubbish relationship to another but i'm only 25 maybe just need to get over the fact that there aint no love like a 1st but i really hope i'm wrong.
2006-10-24 02:53:27 · answer #5 · answered by KIPPAX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not easy you have to think about yourself and try to enjoy what you like to do take time out for you and be good to yourself pamper you dress up make up and all big smile laugh when you feel like crying play music it takes time get to know you and indulge yourself try something new outrageous go shopping dancing walk run slowly do some thing different every day no big thing read a book or go swimming you need some time away from your thoughts divert your mind on something else be lucky move forward to a greater love and find peace
2006-10-23 14:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have. I really iked this guy and he SAID he liked me then he started to hit on his Ex and I told him he was crap. That was so stupid of me. He has broke my heart so many times and I just can't let go. Im too afraid that once i move on he will see who i really am and it will be too late so i keep holding on. I still love him.
2006-10-23 14:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by Mandy L 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yup, I'm feelin' you. It sucks. You're dying inside, but everyone just tells you you're better off without him and to get over it, but it ain't that easy. It feels like someone punched you in the stomach and you can't recover. But, it does get better eventually. I promise. It takes a while, but take everyday one at a time.
2006-10-23 14:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by nikki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES, It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all! work through it and count it as a learning experience.
2006-10-23 14:01:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i think its happening right now and i'm a very muddled person.
I hate the way you can be so hung up on a person and the feeling just isnt mutual!
2006-10-23 23:27:51 · answer #10 · answered by Loopy loo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me, this boy that i like (shun tribble) asked out my best friend and she said yes. I haven't not talked to them in about 2 months. I am still heart broken.
2006-10-23 13:58:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋