ok my boyfriend is 16 and I am 13. I like him a whole bunch! We get along really good and everything but yesterday night, I was going to go visit him at this cafe place we have in our town because he works there, but I saw him talking to another girl that was around 15. I watched him for awhile and he grabbed her hand but that's all! I dont know if I just confront him about this or let it be because all he did was grab her hand......
2006-10-23 13:55:52 · 12 answers · asked by P!ATD GIRL! Luvn Brendon Urie! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hes not warth it if hes stupied enough 2 do somthing like that then let him do it and u probely want 2 hear the same awsnser that i wanted to hear well kick her *** but things dont work out like that so
2006-10-23 14:02:19 · answer #1 · answered by slim-jim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree that you ask him about it in a calm way. Be prepared to trust your instinct about what he says and how he says it. Sometimes people make excuses for unacceptable behavior of the ones they are dating and refuse to see the truth. If, he has a reasonable and believable explanation, it will come out that way and he should respect you for asking. At that point, you should respect him for telling you the truth.
I believe that your intuition can already give you the answer if you close your eyes... revisit the observation... and give freedom for the truth to reveal itself. All of the dynamics of the hand-holding will speak to whether it was innocent or not.
Trust yourself on this one. You have a whole wonderful life ahead of you. Enjoy it sweetie!
2006-10-23 21:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you kind of young to be messing around with a 16 year old? I would let what you saw go and him go. Find someone your own age.
2006-10-23 22:00:39 · answer #3 · answered by Goodbye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is more than a little bazaar that 13 year olds think they have to be in heavy duty monogamous relationships. At your age you should be more into just having lots of friends and lots of fun. Just quit being so serious, you are not ready for it, and hear me now, belive me later....it isn't very fun.
2006-10-23 21:05:25 · answer #4 · answered by hankthecowdog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him about it, dont get mad at him just ask him clamly! If he just grabbed her hand, then it could blow up into something big. i kind of went through the same thing and got my heart broken!
2006-10-23 21:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would confront him. Sometimes it is really nothing he could just be a friend could not be to you wont know for sure unless you ask him.
2006-10-23 21:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by mossk_2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't ask him it will eat you up inside. Wait until you are calm and then ask him to explain his behavior.
2006-10-23 20:59:56 · answer #7 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just confront him nicely about it. make it casual. If he gets all defensive and angry, then finish it. BTW, ur 13, wat r u doin w/ a 16 year old?
2006-10-23 20:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would confront him i dont think anything is goin on though
2006-10-23 21:01:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you need to talk to him he is probly a player if u dont want ur heart broken TALKTOHIM!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-23 21:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by Hollisterbebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋