I have been going out with a guy for about two weeks. All of my friends ask me why I'm with him cause he's a year younger. He's extremely nice and very cute, and when he asked me out, I was reluctant. I don't know if i really like him. I went to a party last weekend, and hooked up with a college guy, and I wanted to hook up with him, but I felt bad lying to my boyfriend. As for the hookup, it was awesome, but I feel bad lying to my boyfriend. Should I tell him?
2006-10-23 13:54:00 · 26 answers · asked by Marilyn L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-23 13:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
it seems maybe you just need to date right now if i understand you right the guy you "cheated on" had been your BF for 2 weeks and now you want to hook about with another guy how serious is this 2 week relationship maybe you should just end it nicely by saying it's not working out no need to hurt the guys feelings anymore than necessary also why is him being one year younger than you a big deal that's nothing unless he's a minor and you are not good luck
2006-10-23 13:59:46 · answer #2 · answered by katlady927 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u guys have only been together for two weeks....How serious is he towards u?
Does he believe that the two of u have a relationship?
The honest thing to do is to tell him if u are not in love with him just walk away because if u don't u are going to hurt this poor guy.!!!AND do not do this again.Its not fair with the guy! Just turn the tables how u would like if it was done to u?
2006-10-23 14:02:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell him, it's the right thing to do. What if he did the same wouldn't you want to know. With any luck he will forgive you. Do you want to stay with him or hook up the college guy? That is the next question I would think.
2006-10-23 13:58:19 · answer #4 · answered by Sexy-n-Hot 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This isnt so serious it seems. If you really didnt want to be with him in the first place you should have said no. I think you should tell him and explain FIRST the way you felt about saying yes when he asked you to be his girl. Then ease on to the cheating part. If you did cheat this means your not ready for a serious commitment, explain that as well. Dont hurt him, because what goes around comes around.
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2006-10-23 13:58:35 · answer #5 · answered by b2009 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Break up with ur boyfriend because u have only been dating for 2 weeks!!!!!!! And u cheated on him already if u told u would most likely get hit to the curb!!!!!TELLHIM in a area where none of his friends are with him
2006-10-23 13:58:09 · answer #6 · answered by Hollisterbebe 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
SHAME ON YOU FOR CHEATING. NEXT YOU GONNA BE SAYING ALL GUYS ARE ALIKE AND CHEAT ALL TIME. IF YOU WANT TO KEEP THE B/F YOU BETTER NOT TELL AND STOP HOOKING UP NOW. IF YOU GONNA KEEP HOOKING JUST TELL THE POOR GUY AND DUMP HIM HARD. YOU WOULD BE DOING HIM A FAVOR BY DUMPING HIM BECAUSE YOU SOUND LIKE A TRAMP .
2006-10-23 13:59:48 · answer #7 · answered by roy40372 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what the hell!!!!!!!!!how old are u? so you ceated on you boyfriend that is a year younger then u. yeah of course you need to tell him, but why did u do that and you knew you had a bf all ready? you are crazy,but anyways just tell him[ in a nice way,
2006-10-23 13:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by hotchick14 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
telling him is the best way to not hurting his feelings in other ways, like him finding out before you tell him. But, if you wanna go the other way, there's no one stopping you.
2006-10-23 13:57:52 · answer #9 · answered by Chunni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-23 13:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by bitshy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spare him the heartache because he does like you and tell him now while its early. As much as he'll hate it, he'll thank you in the end. Relationships aren't built on lies and secrecy so if anything, just tell him. For his sake.
2006-10-23 13:56:50 · answer #11 · answered by puppy 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋