my boyfriend and i love each other very much, but or religions are so different! and we cant do anything about that because our parents dont want to change our religion...
2006-10-23 13:47:24 · 12 answers · asked by emavi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am jewish tell them that he is not that bad and tell them that there are worse things that he could be, like a satanist. But seriously you don't need them to get married. And if they don't help you then **** them.
2006-10-23 13:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
let me tell u why, first of all there are a billion books out there about this subject go read one of them. second of all its gonna affect ur kids theyre gona think what am i? christian? jewish? do u really wanna do that to them? also, jews are a very small number compared to the rest of the world and if u want the religion to die out gd forbid then go ahead marry him. but if u actually care then don't do it and go with someone in ur own religion im telling u u'll be happier in the future. u dont know what a big sin it is for a jew to be married outside of their religion.
2006-10-23 13:53:43 · answer #2 · answered by i love rain92790 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can change you own religion b/c you're an adult. Go to the reference section on your Bible and look up marriage. Christians can marry believers and non-believers. You're parents won't be happy but it's not their life to live.
2006-10-23 13:53:40 · answer #3 · answered by Pieces of Me ... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't reccomend that you do this becuase religion can be a very hard thing to deal with. But it is certainly not aginst the law. If you are both over 18, no one can stop you.
2006-10-24 13:34:27 · answer #4 · answered by abcdefghijk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ur parents are not going to change but if u two love each other than some middle ground needs to be found. its hard enough between me and my fiancee. i am methodist and she is catholic. i can't imagine the difference in u two. don't listen to others. what do u two want? its up to u not them. make ur choice together alone. not with the family. they may be upset now but they will get over it. good luck.
2006-10-23 14:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by ryan s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just tradition, is all. If your parents are so worried about it, suggest getting married in an all-faiths chapel if neither of you wants to convert. If they really respect your relationship, they'll be up for it. I know my parents would NEVER let me marry a non-Jew, but luckily for all of us, I don't want to get married at all.
2006-10-23 13:56:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not easy because of your religions but it is possible,i know people who have done it,one has to loose there faith and become the others,good luck and i hope you have luck
2006-10-23 13:51:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still marry,it just might be difficult,but don't let religion stop your feelings!You obviously like each other!:)
2006-10-23 13:50:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Jshepard17. If your 18 or older throw it all to the wind and do what you want. Marry each other. Good Luck and GOD BLESS!!!!!
2006-10-23 14:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by kryptonnite2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are an adult then you can marry whomever you want regardless of religion.
2006-10-23 13:49:23 · answer #10 · answered by jshepard17 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋