he get's mad when some one asks me out and so he'll start beating them up should i stop him or just let him kick and punch people. PLEASE HELP I DON"T KNOW WHAT TO DO
2006-10-23 13:44:26 · 28 answers · asked by Alyssa M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sure you want to date this type of guy?
Violent men have been known to also be violent with women.
2006-10-23 13:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by m_harvery 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think there is a huge jelousy problem here. I would let him know he needs to stop or else you will leave him. This is not ok. Somebody will eventually press charges and have him thrown either in Juvenile Hall or jail if he doesn't stop. He sounds like he has an anger problem. If he is going around beating up people I would be afraid to make him mad for fear he might beat you up. This is not a good situation. I hope he will stop soon.
2006-10-23 20:50:27 · answer #2 · answered by hehmommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i won't stop him myself but i'll better off walk away and leave him for the rest of my life. what good is a man like this? good for beating and punching people up no matter what? if this still doesn't do any good go to the authorities to get help. at least now you see the true color of him than living with it for the rest of your life. it's such a treat. we shouldn't live in fear.
2006-10-23 23:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by - 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have an issue, seek council for him if this is a great concern for you, talk to mom if you have to or someone that can help him with his temper.. But most important ask your self if you want to be with a person like this for the rest of your life,, For i myself was in your shoes long ago, thou i thought i was in love took me 8 yrs to learn the hard way, because of his jelouse ways i was unable to have friends, and beaten at least twice a week ,, and belive me that was a nightmare
2006-10-23 21:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by Rosa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eventually your boyfriend will run into someone who is better at fighting than he is - will you visit him in the hospital? what do you think will happen if you decide to break up with him? do you enjoy being kicked and punched? because you probably will be
your boyfriend is emotionally or psychologically ill, and if you don't recognize that, you need help as well
2006-10-23 20:49:50 · answer #5 · answered by johnmadsen53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him, call police and say he's abusive. If you don't want to do that, don't let people ask you out. Tell him also, maybe you should get me a ring, so people can stop asking me out like im taken.. good deal for both sides ;) and theres a ring involved.
2006-10-23 20:46:58 · answer #6 · answered by GodWillSaveMe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to break up with him and tell him to seek counseling. He might get tired of beating up men and start beating on you for being so cute. Think about it!
2006-10-23 20:47:04 · answer #7 · answered by Pieces of Me ... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no you should not try to stop him or this could get you hurt. what you need to do is tell him that he needs to grow up, that you are fed up with when ever the two of you go some where the night gets ruined because of his wanting to fight. and i would also tell him that if it happens again its over. honey, he really does need to grow up. and it will be just a matter of time that during one of these fights your going to get hurt.
2006-10-23 20:49:00 · answer #8 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a problem. Yea stop him if you can. But most importantly, what makes you think this angry dude won't beat you when,or if he gets mad at you?
2006-10-23 20:48:41 · answer #9 · answered by copestir 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boyfriends should only kick some guy's a$$ if they're physically (or mentally) threatening their girl. Yes stop him.
2006-10-23 20:46:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should be asking yourself the question: When is he going to start hitting me?
My advice: Get away from him. He's already showing violence. He's also very possessive. Bad combination.
2006-10-23 20:48:06 · answer #11 · answered by Juanitamarie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋