My boyfriend have been going out for 2 months now, and everyone says we are great. But recently he admitted he used to like a really good friend of his and every time he sees her, it brings back those feelings, but he doesnt see her that much, because she lives a half an hour away. After he visits her, he is really distant, but after a few days and then things go back to normal. I don't know what to do. My friends say dump him, but I trust him, and I like him too much to dump him for just that. Should I follow my friends advice, or follow my heart?
*just so u know, I am 14 years old*
2006-10-23 13:40:31 · 9 answers · asked by arak1190 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From one 14 year old to another,
If you trust him, then keep him. It's hard to find guys you can really trust but if you get one whiff of him being serious about her all the time, dunp him..
2006-10-23 13:44:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay,so he admitted that he liked another girl while dating you? Why didn't you dump him the second he told you that? I know you may like him,but he should've never gone out with you if he had feelings for someone else.It's like this guy just used you to get over his feelings,which is wrong.How long has it been since he told you.If it's been a while,and you bring it up,he's gonna be confused.He's gonna be thinking,'She was fine with it when I told her,but now she's upset.' Unless you say,"That made me feel bad knowing that you liked someone that you were around a lot..and you told me why we were going out.I never said anything,cause I trusted you,but it's bothering me."If you don't wanna ever mess with it and you really do trust him,then you could leave it alone if that's what you want,but that's what I'd do if I was in that situation.
2006-10-23 21:00:59 · answer #2 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be dating in the first place
2006-10-23 20:42:39 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. You should listen to what he just told you.
He said every time he sees a certain girl, he has feelings come back to her and it takes him days of ignoring you to recover.
This is about trust- it's about a guy who feels very strongly for someone who isn't you. You should get a guy who feels that way about you and only you.
2006-10-23 20:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, well my question for you would be, do you trust the girl? but if your bf says he likes her, then i would say maybe to take a break or break up with him. he's being honest, but he says he liked a really good friend. you don't really know that he doesn't still like her. you may like him, but you want a guy that's crazy for you, not some other girl
2006-10-23 20:42:48 · answer #5 · answered by angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, there are other "fish in the sea" and this one will eventually break your heart. If he really liked you he wouldn't be having any "feelings" toward anyone else. Do it now before it gets worse.
2006-10-23 20:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think he was really nice admitting that he has those feelings and stuff..... it normal for a guy to like his ex and go out with another gurl, but if something were to hapen that says that he want s to get back with her then be like, well heres your chance, its over
2006-10-23 20:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg 14 and your in a deliemma over a male..........why are you in such a rush to grow up? life is hard enough without drama at THIS age
2006-10-23 20:45:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 letters- T-A-L-K
2006-10-23 20:42:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋