my boy friend and i are still in the stage where we're too nervous to hug or kiss or anything. i want to further our relationship, but how??? HELP!!!
2006-10-23 13:38:16 · 19 answers · asked by <<mi.amor>> 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well for my boyfriend and I, it was akward at first, especially at school, because he didnt want his younger bro to see and start teasing him, but we found a secluded area and quickly hugged and we do that every day now after school. It has made our relationship a lot stronger.
2006-10-23 13:42:37 · answer #1 · answered by arak1190 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to act like u want him to want u do u get what im saying? Ok well tell him how u feel and ask him if he feels the same way i just got through that stage with my boyfriend ya that is a sucky stage but u will get through it it is only the first stage give some slack ok you could also if u r to scared to talk to him ur self just tell one of his good friends also one that is trustworthy you need to ask ur self how long u and the guy have been going out and if it continues for more that 3weeks dont stick around because he most likely wont talk to u u could also try talking on the phone because then u arnt faceing each other!!!! GOODLUCK!!!!
2006-10-23 13:45:36 · answer #2 · answered by Hollisterbebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay well i got past that stage already and my bf helped. first i went swimming with him in his pool with my brother and sister with me and i went over by the latter and he came up to me and puckered up his lips, well i was used to him doing that and he would always stop after a few seconds but this time he wouldn't stop so i took the plunge and went for it and i couldn't believe i just did that but it wasn't as scary as i thought it would be and we did it a couple of times and we still do it everytime he has to go home but he always comes back a few minutes later even if it means sneaking out. so all i'm trying to say is be the guy and pucker up and maybe he'll kiss you back. good luck!
2006-10-23 13:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by tia w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm stuck in that stage too... It's tough right? The only thing I can think of is take the plunge and make the first move.
2006-10-23 13:39:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 21:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by spies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol how old r u?well ,start by YOU doing the moves,i know he should but maybe he's a little chicken that you'll act bad to his affection.touch him a little more often on the arm or wherever when talking to him,this way he feels more confortable and see that touching isnt a big deal to you(even if it is).then give him little clues,tell him that you're cold and get his arms arround you,use little things like that,write on his hand and touch it and if he doesnt get a clue,then i cant help you there lol................. gooD Luck
2006-10-23 13:48:55 · answer #6 · answered by ◄ZΨΦИ► 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok more detail is needed. what are ur ages? how long have u two been dating? just make the moves though. he may be shy but a girl that is aggressive is always nice. just move alittle closer to him on the couch and if he doesn't put his arm around u then take his arm and put it around ur shoulder. just be the one to make the first move if he doesn't. good luck
2006-10-23 14:24:14 · answer #7 · answered by ryan s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i was in that stage before and my advise is just go for it.....he'll just go with the flow....if you keep doing it both of yall will feel more comfortable but if neither of you do anything..yall be nervous for a long time.....take a chance
2006-10-23 13:56:14 · answer #8 · answered by aw_dw4ever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dane girl..lol.how yall gonna b scared of each other.he's ur boyfriend yall should at least b able to give hugs.i have boys thats not my frend and i giv them hugs. just tuffin up a lil and ull get there...good luk wit u and yo man!
2006-10-23 13:41:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just kiss him or hug. someone got to start something. go some place quiet and private and hug. Keep doing that until you get used to it, then kissing. kiss and get used to it,
2006-10-23 13:44:42 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋