I'm 5'6'', 100 lbs, and I dress like goth/grundge. I think I'm intimidating guys away, like "Eww! look at that creepy dead-looking goth skeleton chik!" or "Wow, shes really skinny, gross!" I've actually never heard this, but what if that is what they think? 10 months ago, I used to weigh twice what I do now, and now that I'm at this weight, It's like 'what did I do!' How can I get guys to talk to me more?
2006-10-23 13:37:49 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Changing yourself to please a guy is not okay! If you want to find a good guy, it should be someone who is comfortable with you the way you are. Sometimes, people who dress gothic intimidate other people because of the stereotypes surrounding them. These people aren't worth getting upset over. They can't look past your appearance, and are weirded out by anyone who is different. Don't change yourself for others. If you want to change, do it for you. Lots of luck! =')
2006-10-23 13:42:25 · answer #1 · answered by Bethany 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They absolutely are thinking the creepy, dead looking, gross things and maybe the too skinny thing also. Despite what Hollywood wants women to believe, Callista Flockhart, Lara Flynn Boyle, and the others like them are NOT what us guys want. Nicole Ritchie was not half bad too years ago but is hideous now. Based on 5-6" and 100 pounds I don't think you look that thin, but go ahead and put on 15-20 pounds and lighten up the look. Eye make-up can help because eyes are often the second or third thing guys notice on a girl. Most importantly though - SMILE. A girl that smiles looks like fun and seems approachable. So add a few pounds and drop the walking dead look you will be smokin' hot. Good luck.
2006-10-23 13:51:55 · answer #2 · answered by D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 21:30:56 · answer #3 · answered by spies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... gain alittle more weight. i mean 100 lbs being 5'6" is kinda skinny. but dont gain so much that u weigh like 160lbs. lol and ur gothic image im not sure. some people make it work and some dont. and who knows maybe u dont need the gothic image so look pretty.
2006-10-23 15:21:11 · answer #4 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go places where the grungy Goth guys hang out, get a makeover, or, go to the gym and add some meat to your bones.
2006-10-23 13:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all if u like the way u look dont change it for anyone just find a guy whos into stuff you are and likes the way u look
second if u dont like it and want to find a guy who is opopsite to u gain sme weight and change the way u dress there are really cute stores like wet seal, abercrombie, ect... all those good stuff go looking and if u need more help email me... go to my page and click on contact loveable ok good luck!
2006-10-23 13:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by Found love... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all seriousness, you should try to put on about 20 lbs.
Once you do, start dressing in a way that shows off your bod. Trust me, guys will take notice.
2006-10-23 13:39:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are scared or intimidated by goth chicks. Just show people how friendly you really are.
2006-10-23 13:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by dipsy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
umm your perfect how you are
but incase you want more guys try wearing natural looking makeup or try some different cloths
try a change of look
or in class do something funny were you can start conversations with guys or girls and a guy will come by
2006-10-23 13:41:00 · answer #9 · answered by pina_cojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all you have to do is dress a little more prettier and gain about 15 more pounds!
2006-10-23 13:43:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋