I'm a female who has a crush on a bifemale. I'm usually the one to pursue my crush, so it seems taking the agressive role but how can i be the agressor when her height intimidates me and makes me feel submissive?
2006-10-23 13:37:46 · 2 answers · asked by dnice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pursue her in a "softer", more "feminine" way, by flirting rather than just going to straight for the mother lode, so to speak. Girls pursue guys all the time without being the aggressor, they just do it in more subtle ways. Or, go ahead and ask her out, but in a more submissive way.
2006-10-23 13:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anna S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BDSM, DS, S & M, there are many pretenders, the world wants something for nothing, the artists are special for no other reason than they are givers, they give and they put themselves into the role. There is a secret and that simply is to delve into your instincts, we were born with them but our society gets you to question what instinctively you know is right, this causes confusion. Do what feels right and then do it with every fibre of your being. Another trait that will raise you above the rest is to learn to listen, most people hear but do not listen, also observe, not simply watch, observe, study. To understand the roles, you have got to have experienced each and every role. With some partners you may well take the submissive role, that's cool and with others, you shall feel comfortable at playing the domme and with others you'll both feel happy at switching roles. There is just one rule ...... there are no rules :o)
2006-10-23 21:06:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋