im talkin to my girlfriend and i dont know what to say or do to get her to talk more any ideas
2006-10-23 13:35:55 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the weather
clothes
children
lover
ex-lovers
movies
cars
football games
food
daily activities
upcoming holidays
dancing
2006-10-23 13:42:21 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone has this problem at some point or another. Theres nothing worse than an 'awkward silence'. Ask questions which show you have an interest in her. Dont ask boring things like whats your fav colour. Just talk about things you both are associated with- like school, friends, parties, family, work etc. Remember the girlFRIEND part. Shes not there to judge you. And if she is- shes not worth it.
2006-10-23 13:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm wondering how long you've been together that your still having that problem or that you even have it in the first place. Most people usually get together by talking or having things in common, or just plain someones personality. Maybe the relationship and its future are exactly that nothing, I say from my experience Please dont waste your time when such a clear sign is already there, I wish I had the courage to take that kind of advice a long time ago!!!
2006-10-23 13:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by KIMBUR 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez, whats going on here?
Heres some basics......
How was your day today?
How are you feeling{ this is the female laguage of love}
How did your day start tell me everything that happened once you woke up.
High? Low? Give me the highest best thing that happened . Give me the lowest what was the worst thing that happened. How did that make you feel? Wow that must of been really tough.
If you could be and do anything in the world what would it be? Tell me what you dream about?
Who was your first crush on when you were a little girl what happened?
Whats your favorite food, movie, colour tell me why.......
Give that a go.
2006-10-23 13:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by bella 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont talk. I am phone shy and my ex was too. we would just sit and be all embaressed and giggle at the silence. okay, that was when I was 16, and my first time using a phone with a friend. Yeah, my parents allways recorded my phone calls, so no one ever called me.
Real freaky I might add
2006-10-23 13:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by Mandee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer talk plenty on the telephone. social gathering for some walks. one element you adult adult males can do is %. a competent e book to examine. each and each of you have one in all them and talk them. talk video clips and individuals. modern events. Do issues at the same time like museums, parks and so on. Then your relationship won't develop into uninteresting. At this fee your relationship won't final.
2016-12-08 19:58:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about what you could be doing to benefit society insted of tying up your parents phone lines.
2006-10-23 13:39:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IM SORRY!!!!!!!!!!! BUT..... thats a really lame question... talk about school where u guys can go to next week... family whats going on in ur home life..
find a comman bond
2006-10-23 13:37:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yea
wat she is doing
wat she did all of the day
wat she wants to do
ask if she has seen a new movie___ if not ask her if she wants to go and u have a day planned out and you wont be asking any more questions like these
2006-10-23 13:38:05 · answer #9 · answered by pina_cojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have that problem so i have no idea what to tell you 'cause i always have something to talk about.How about your lives?I know i ain't the only one whose life is all screwed up!!
2006-10-23 13:41:06 · answer #10 · answered by serenity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋