Ive know this girl for five months now and we have become very cool friends. Not to long ago I found out she liked me through a friend she told. And the thing is I like her too and ive been wanting to tell her that I like her. But when ever we are out its so hard to get her alone and away from people we are always around and she has a very short attention span. She is a pretty outgoing person but is shy when it comes to showing her feelings and it's hard to be serious with her when we are out. Anyway I think I might just call her up tonight to tell her. But I'm not sure calling is the best option I would rather do it face to face so I need some help with this. Also I need help on deciding how to tell her that I like her so SOMEONE OUT THERE HELP ME?
2006-10-23 13:28:04 · 27 answers · asked by alphamale 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BIG NO NO...do not tell her over the phone it is not romantic...woman like romance...
well get her some flowers( ROSES)either pink or red.
ask her out for a coffee, or pizza or movies...or whatever she likes to do give her the roses and tell her how u feel.No matter how shy she is flowers usually work with woman specially roses.
2006-10-23 13:38:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calling is not the best way to tell someone you like them, but it is better than a note. Try and get her alone. Maybe you could take her out without any other friends. But tell her you like her soon. It's not good to keep your feelings inside you for too long. There is nothing better than to hear from the guy that you like that he likes you too. You will make her very happy if you just tell her face to face.
2006-10-23 13:33:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should call her and tell her there is something important you need to tell her but you would rather do it face to face and not around too many people and then the next day pull her aside and tell her that you think you may like her as more then friends and wanted to know what she thought about that but if you can't wait call her and say this because you may lose your courage in person and or not be able to tell her in person.
2006-10-23 13:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by Claire321614 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww... sweetie my heart goes out to you.Its soo hard to tell some your interested in them when your young.Trust me it gets easier when your older I Promise!!
Ok. Here is my advice to you.When your on the phone with her.Tell her you like her and would like to get to know her better,preferably without a lot of people around.Whatever you do .. do not profess your undying love for her.If she is shy... she will backstep soo fast, your head will spin.Ask her if she would like to hang out just the 2 of you, or if she prefer's tell her to bring along a girlfriend and then you will bring a freind.Not like a double date lol.But just to hang out.
If that dont work.... then try to get her alone when your out with friends and work your magic.You will never know if you dont try.When you have her alone sit close to her and let her bodylanguage guide you.If you grab her hand and she doesnt jerk away.And she hold it.Let her get used to the idea of it.And before the end of the night if she is cool with it all.Then try to give her a little kiss. What is the worst that can happen? Oh My God (Insert your name) just tried to hold my hand!! Or (insert your name) He tried to kiss me!!! Nobody will care either way and trust me you will not be the topic of discussion in the lunch room.It sounds like she likes you too but right now you guys are at a stalemate.She is waiting for you to make the move hun.I know it sucks!! Thats why im glad im not a man lol.But all the same give it a shot you have nothing to loose
2006-10-23 13:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by serena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay you needed to tell her in person over the phone is not the greatest thing its like a major turn off. (Well 4 me it is.) Anyways you need to pull her aside and tell her. If she is with a bunch of people then say I have something very important to tell you. Or pull her by force. You can make it into a joke like thing. If possible. But dude you have to be a man and tell her or she'll never open her feelings out to you.
2006-10-23 13:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by Britters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not give her a call and ask her out for coffee? Then you will have her alone. Dont jump in straight away, explain to her how you've had feelings for her for a while and how you've been to shy to tell her and how you were also afraid of destroying your friendship. When the time comes, you'll know exactly what to do, good luck!
2006-10-23 13:33:06 · answer #6 · answered by ♡MaNda♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont do it over the phone. You will want to see her reaction. Tell her you need to talk to her about something really important and tell her that it is kind of personal. Get flowers for her. Women might say flowers are a waste but every women loves flowers (the majority anyway). Tell her why you like her and how she makes you feel when she is around.
2006-10-23 13:33:03 · answer #7 · answered by delishisdiva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Different girls go for different things. If you really want to loose weight, do it for yourself and the health benefits it can bring to your life. Not to mention that you seem to be lacking confidece in yourself because of it. A good heart is the best thing to have, because it will attract the keepers. A good body or money will only get shallow girls. It is also good to have a good personality through your unique interests and personal dreams because a significant other cannot make someone's life all by themself....they can only add to it.
2016-05-22 02:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by Alison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay so here's what you do...
call her up(not tonight) and ask her if she wants to go see a movie or something. when she asks who else is going say "some ppl" then you take her out for coffee/food w/e and pose a theoretical question like this:
"So say there's this guy who likes this girl but technically they're just friends but he thinks he likes her too. the guy really wanted to tell her he liked her so he followed some random strangers advice and took her out for coffe/dinner and now he's freaking out because he wants to tell her that he likes her but he's really nervous and scared she'll brush hime of...what should he do?"
if this girl can't figure out you're talking about yourself and her then she's an idiot and you could do better.
2006-10-23 13:34:29 · answer #9 · answered by lalapalooza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it's hard to get her sole attention when you're out, I say call her. Tell her that you've wanted her to know something for a while and that you really dig her. Ask her out on a date with out friends and see where it goes. Good Luck!
2006-10-23 13:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋