Me and this boy used to go together but we broke up but we still like each other (or at least I think so). Now he goes with a friend of mine and it hurts me to sit there and watch her talk about him right in front of my face. But anyway, He and my best friend are really close. He told her that he only went with her because he didn't want to hurt her feelings. And we were at a party Saturday and we danced a lot together and i think that its becoming a problem for him to choose. But anyway, i really like him. So how do i get him back without hurting my friend's feelings?
2006-10-23 13:26:55 · 9 answers · asked by j 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well ur friend will understand but if u luv him truly and he feels the same for u then dont think bout anyone else just do what ur heart tells u to
2006-10-23 13:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by mrdeeds_1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love stinks....Whose feelings are more important?? You dated him first ...right? And if she was your "best" friend she would not have dated him..to close to home. Do you and your girlfriends have a no dating rule about ex boyfriends or no dibbs on the ones you are dating at that time?? If not maybe you need to sit down and talk about it.
ANd talk to your "friend boy", tell him there are no charity calls with your friend.. meaning you don't just go out with someone to not hurt their feelings..WHY>>? You end up hurting them more when they find out the truth.. and trust me ..they will find out the truth.
I t might just save a friendship...
Good Luck
2006-10-23 20:38:13 · answer #2 · answered by Simply Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no possible way. Someone in this situation is going to get hurt. If it were me, I would just walk away from the situation. I wouldn't want to date someone who gives pity dates.
2006-10-23 20:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb, and get on with your life! You're wasting precious time with the same guy.
2006-10-23 20:29:21 · answer #4 · answered by Momma Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her how you feel about him, and tell her how much it hurts you to see them together, Tell her you still like him and are still inerested.
2006-10-23 20:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only safe thing that you can do is wait
everything else is a risk for you and your friend
2006-10-23 20:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by Patrick Teh III 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL FIND OUT IF HE DOES LIKE YOU,cause if not then you will make a fool of!!lol
2006-10-23 20:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by Richie_Grl#1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not possible!
you know how you felt when he ditched you for her,
no matter what you do
she will always feel how you do now
if you take him back
2006-10-23 20:30:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well just wait till they r over and c if its ok with her and ask him out
2006-10-23 20:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by loveekla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋