could anyone help me figure out how to tell my homophobic parents that i'm BI ? (im 15)
2006-10-23 13:25:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, why tell them since it will only make things much worse from the sounds of it. Just be yourself and if you do decide to approach the subject with them reassure them that you love and care for them as much as they do you. You're at a point where you're growing up now and starting to find out what you like: there's nothing wrong with that. Your parents love you (all parents love their children) and they want what's best for you...but just becuase what they want for you is not what you want for you doesn't make either of you wrong, it just means that you are an individual. Make wise decisions and above all, respect them and you'll probably be surprised how well parents tolerate bad news as long as they know you respect them.
2006-10-23 13:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by Gotham*City*Kat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you feel the need at 15 to make your life harder? if you are bi you are lucky-stay under your homophobic parents radar until you turn 18 then do what ever you like.
2006-10-23 14:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by rwl_is_taken 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl, you're 15. you don't know if you're bi. by the way, there are no bi's. i don't think your parents are homophobic. trust them, maybe, just maybe, they know better. at your age is normal to feel insecure, to try to experiment but don't jump to conclusions too soon. and try not to get caught with no one in bed for the moment. time will tell. how do i know all this? i'm not smarter i' m just older. so try not to *** your life for the moment.
2006-10-23 13:35:47 · answer #3 · answered by kuno m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say it. That's the only thing you can do. Otherwise you'll be in the closet all your life and they won't understand you. If they really care about you, they'll respect your lifestyle. (Of course, it's not like anyone chooses to be bi or gay — it just happens.)
2006-10-23 14:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well get caught in bed with a guy and then tell them DAT u bi but u like men better .
2006-10-23 13:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just come out... they will think that you are 'experimenting' and that you will grow out of it... then you will feel better and when they realize that you didn't, then you can tell them that you DID tell them. Just don't make a big deal of it. Do you want a reaction or just get it off your chest? If just get it out, then just tell them like you are telling them that you stepped in something... no big deal. What comes after is their problem.
2006-10-23 13:31:37 · answer #6 · answered by Valeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont. stay in the closet and be normal
2006-10-23 13:27:57 · answer #7 · answered by Thumbs down me now 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get caught in bed with a chick! ;)
2006-10-23 13:27:15 · answer #8 · answered by Bob_123 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i agree with bob_123
2006-10-23 13:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋