I met a guy on match. com and we had dated for 6 month's, He wont stop calling my entire family. Although we live 35 miles from one another everywhere i go he's there. Im really scared of what he could be capable of.
2006-10-23 13:23:11 · 18 answers · asked by Libby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow. sounds scary. i think you should let him know that he`s freaking you out. and that he`s bothering your whole family. and if that doesn`t work then call the police, if he stalks you then you`ll never know what he`ll do. good luck ! =] let`s hope he`s not physco.
2006-10-23 13:30:27 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'If he is harassing u like that then the best thing 2 do is either call the cops or say u know what u really need 2 stop calling my entire family and please leave me alone I need some space.Back off please!Dont be mean about it just think about what u have 2 say,if u be mean about it then he will really do something. Good luck finging the right answer!Advice:Baby Pink aka:Trisha
2006-10-23 13:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a restraining order! and carry a cell phone with you at all times. If he calls any of your family or goes near you after that call the police and they will lock him up.
2006-10-23 13:28:09 · answer #3 · answered by BetteBoop 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared, meet him somewhere, talk it out, maybe he needs to talk to you but he's shy that you won't want him there. He'll probably tell you something new. Set up a time & date every month or week to talk and havee quality time together. That will bring you closer together and it will help you in your relationship with eachother.
2006-10-23 13:35:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
report him. Or confront him straight on. Tell him you'll go to the police if he doesn't quit. tape his calls and get evidence. if you are scared, then don't confront him but report him. Do this ASAP. you need to put a stop to this creep. Does anyone in your family have caller ID? Report report report the stalker.
2006-10-23 13:26:56 · answer #5 · answered by Nose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not hesitate....GO TO THE POLICE. Get a report filed now. You need to get it on paper NOW! If nothing ever comes of it, its OK. BUT if it does, you have already got it on paper with the police. Do not feel shy, stupid, or embarrassed. Go to the Police.
2006-10-23 13:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by no name 95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever u do dont confront hiim but i have a great idea if he spies on u at your house and u no hes looking at you make him feel dum act like you just did something horrible act like u r dying make him in a way feel guilty and have company with you once you do a deed like this please whatever you do dont confront him ok bye be safe.Orr notify the authority.
2006-10-23 13:27:45 · answer #7 · answered by makeveli1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His behaviour tells me that he may be obsessed with you. Obsessions are a kind of mental illness. What you need to do is notify the authorities — right now. Just telling him to leave you alone won't do anything.
2006-10-23 13:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police.
2006-10-23 13:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by Trollhair 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you started dating someone else before you actually do so this new guy won't get harmed.. give him a little bit of time to deal with it.. if he don't leave you alone.. CALL THE POLICE...he shouldn't be calling your family at all!!!!
2006-10-23 13:26:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋