I aksed her, and she saide i was the first guy to ever ask her out, she said she wasn't ready for a commitment yet, and wanted to hang out more before she does, should i persue or not?
2006-10-23 13:22:02 · 15 answers · asked by The One 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if you really like her, i'd do what she asks. who knows. maybe she won't be able to resist your charm the more you hang out with her. she's probably afraid of what your intentions are since you're the first guy to ask her out.
2006-10-24 06:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF u really like her then ofcourse!!!! If u have a crush on her then don't give up. Hang out with her more and become friends. Get 2 know her better and show her what a gr8 guy u r. Be there for her like a loyal friend. Then when she thinks the time is rite, she might say yes! Good Luck!
2006-10-23 20:24:25 · answer #2 · answered by v.ballerr <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should probably wait untill shes ready because if u keep "persuing" when she isnt ready u might scare her off. But just wait untill she is ready, you will know when the time is right
2006-10-23 20:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as she said she she was never asked b4. she had no experience with answering and was put on the spot. she doesn't want to say "no" but is unsure about "yes" yet. persue, but not to the point of being annoying.
2006-10-23 20:25:27 · answer #4 · answered by The Evil Drummer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , pursue don't pressure her. i can tell you from experience that when u pressure a girl into a relationship just the smallest bit it can set your relationship back a "LONG" time so although you cant have your relationship right now don't sweat it just give it time and it will all work out that's what i did i now I'm with the girl that wasn't ready so just give it time it'll all be cool
2006-10-23 20:37:21 · answer #5 · answered by COQUI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on you. if you are really interested in her, go ahead.
Most of us would want to get to know a guy first before committing to a relationship. If you stay around, then that proves that you are really sincere with your feelings( if you really like her?).
Who knows, she might change her mind. Most of us do once we are swept off our feet.
2006-10-23 20:28:33 · answer #6 · answered by hello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...so see if she'll hang out with you and some mutual friends...maybe hang out at someone's house and watch movies or something like that let her get to know you without asking for a committment...she's probably just scared that (a) your joking or (b) your trying to take advatage of her...going from personal experience...i would pursue
2006-10-23 20:29:04 · answer #7 · answered by i_luv_capn.jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well. i think she wants to get to know you more before you guys go out. give her some time, be friends with her first. show her how much fun you are when you guys are together. eventually she`ll fall for you and end up with you. good luck ! =]
2006-10-23 20:25:45 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give it a try b/c she might turn out to be a pretty cool girl.
2006-10-23 20:24:40 · answer #9 · answered by courtneydeshay2007 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not untill she is ready. you should invite her to a movie or something with a group of your friends and some of her friends.
2006-10-23 20:24:40 · answer #10 · answered by melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋